everyone is acting as if trauma is so easily resolved and that the uke should just "get over it". although i do agree that this is frustrating for the seme, yall need to understand that it's not the uke's responsibility to make things better for the seme. he has to navigate his own trauma while feeling guilty about not being able to accept the one he loves. as someone who has trust issues and has been abandoned, i can guarantee you that it's extremely difficult to get yourself out of your safety net, and the more you feel love for someone, the harder it is to surrender yourself to them bc it only increases the possibility of being hurt and abandoned again. it's much more complex than it appears.
sorry if i sound nerdy but some people go through this shit in their real life so i thought it needed to be said.
her mom is full of bs honestly. what a terrible human being. also, let's not forget her dad is an asshole too. how could he just let his daughter live like that? they're both terrible. AND this is why you should wear condoms, kids. don't force kids to handle the burdens of having incompetent parents.