so let me get this right, the bottom is a "slut" for sleeping around but the top isn't? huh?
Basically, the top just want the uke all to himself. And he doesn't get it yet, or maybe he's already on that part but still in denial accepting his feelings. 'Cause if he doesn't have a budding feeling to the uke then he's just a selfish asshole who doesn't one anyone dipping on what he deemed "his" .
SPOILER
I read ahead on the raws a little bc I know a little Korean and basically they’re fwb but he’s caught feelings he doesn’t like it when someone talks badly about the uke saying he’s already fucked him and slut shaming him and shuts it down. When he sees someone kissing him at the bar after he tells the uke to stay in the car that’s when he finds out and he’s distraught bc he realizes he’s been treating him “wrongly” bc he kept insinuating he was promiscuous then the uke puts him in his place saying what does it matter if I was a virgin or not gay before you only want sex anyway right. So I think the authors trying to explore the nuances of that.
ppl are complaining about the top and I can understand to a certain point but like this is BDSM, when did the top lie about his preferences lol? like I think he should explain it better to the bottom, sure, but he's never deceived the bottom and was always transparent that he gets off the pain of his partner. also, as far as doms go in these types of settings, he's actually pretty on the good side. i think part of the reason some might find him obnoxious is bc we know of the uke's background,
but like have yall forgotten that the top is unware of it as far as of now? so if you still think he's a huge cunt then maybe this manhwa isn't for you?? it's kinda annoying to scroll down expecting some discussion and just see people bitch on a standard Dom-Sub dynamic.
I agree. The seme is completely unaware of the fact that the uke was r@ped. And just to be clear out of many manhwas that has BDSM plot this manhwa is quite good. The seme was calming the uke before proceeding in their sexual intercourse. The uke and seme has a deal in the early chapters, and the seme clearly said if the uke wants to back out he can freely do it earlier. I am not saying that the seme is a green flag but he is much more good than the other BDSM seme's. These peeps whose rattling abt how the seme don't care abt the uke is clearly blind. If you guys are too sensitive on reading this why don't you drop some stars on Jinx then? Ya'll are somewhat also fxcked up you know. The seme here and BJ MD are quite similar in all honesty. The seme may be a jerk but there are certainly some good sides of him that is considered a safe in a BDSM TOP CHARACTER.
Its not a bdsm dom-sub dinamici. There is no consent (you could argue that Lee had a choice, but did he really?? Leave and be destitue or let someone fuck you to keep the only stabe job you had). There are no rules, ML take out his anger on MV, ther eis no definite time when the play starts or ends, MC KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT THIS. He literally didn't even know what sexual play was. It was on ML to explain this stuff to him, and not take advantage of him. MC has no protection, no safe word and when he finally gets it and uses it, the ML fucking ignores it.
If his sexual prefrences were actually BDSM he would've explaind the dynamic and maybe, just maybe MV would've taken it better than literally not knowing what is going on and always being scared.
Like how can you even get hard when you are doing something like that to the person that clearly doesn't want any of that
So yeah rant over, this is not bdsm, this is a story about abuse of power, MLs sadistic tendencies that he is taking out on MC.
this is the only manhwa where misunderstandings aren't frustrating lol they're so chaotic