Hanimoon's Topics (494)

same reaction

literally..... wtf

HELP author thot he cooked

i think the translation is a bit off cause gawd damn,... WHYS HE SO FREAKY

BYEE MY REACTION ASF deadass had to laugh that shit off

what happeneddddd

https://newtoki319.com/webtoon/18169311?stx=밤에+사는+남자+밤에사는남자&toon=BL%2FGL

Same…just goes down from here ughhhh

Right. Dumb af. Idk what’s wrong with author’s head whenever they think of a plot like this

it's weird right? Even if he still liked the manager that guy would still not choose him. That's just pathetic and the seme is a fucking doormat, he should dump that uke ass for at least some months to see if he really changed or not. Accepting him after seeing him kiss that guys is just...... Ugh I can't

Exactly!!! As much as I hate the uke, I also hate the seme istg. He’s such a pushover I can’t— I really despise characters with no ounce of self respect.

probably. he already said before he's not working as much anymore. but I guess it's up to interpretation (whatever floats the readers boat)

I hope so. The uke wants a boyfriend that is only his. I doubt he’s gonna be happy knowing that his lover is still fucking people for money

if you prefer the story that way, it's canon :P that's the beauty of open end stories. in my story he definitely quit, considering they're both quite possessive

Dude thats fucked up, just because he doesn’t want to talk about something with his partner doesn’t mean he deserves to be alone, his partners got with him knowing damn well what he does for a living he isnt the one that in wrong here.

That’s actually not just unfair but immature as well. They’re a couple, yes, but in no way is he entitled to explain to him a personal matter that may or may not be sensitive. Why should one be allowed to have his boundaries respected and not the other?
And why should one give up his work suddenly because his partner “wants him to” i get they’re a couple and they’ll have to work things out eventually but come on now, “he deserves to be alone” and “at least explain why you can’t quit” ??? Come on, now it’s just entitled behavior.

And he asked for a reason. Things can change even after agreed on, it’s inevitable sometimes. ML refused to communicate when asked for a reason, and we already know he’s not doing it for money as he said it several times. So what’s the reason really for him to do sex work to the point of breaking up with others over this?

MC has opened up to him several times and ML is hiding a lot of stuff. They’re partners, it is his business. Ml really should communicate if he wants the relationship to last, clearly he doesn’t so they should break up. It’s not compatible rn.

Then he should explain that he’s not ready to say yet instead of being violent and resorting to aggression. Yes they agreed beforehand but things can happen and change, it’s not a crime or badly unethical for things to change like that. MC was feeling insecure and that’s kinda on him but as a partner, ML should have calmly communicated and not shut him off. That’s immature. MC also asked for a reason, he didn’t force ML to quit. He asked if he could but didn’t demand him to. There’s a difference.

Asking for a reason is not entitlement. It’s simply communications and if you cannot do that, you’re clearly hiding something or you’re just not ready for a relationship. Communication is a big part of relationships and ML sucks at it, what he did in the raws just betrays MC. Smh

The thing is, MC was already well aware before the relationship even started that he would not explain to him why he’s doing the job. He also didn’t tell his ex-gf. It was expected he wouldn’t tell him either until he felt comfortable doing so or whatever. Also i don’t recall anyone saying things changing was badly unethical, i also never said that asking for an explanation was entitlement. What i did call entitlement however, was OP saying Ml deserved to be alone for not explaining to Mc why he’s doing that job, because then again, Ml doesn’t have to if he’s not comfortable with it and Mc is not entitled to an explanation, yes they’re in a relationship, but considering it was something he knew wouldn’t be addressed before the relationship started, it’s not something he can demand now (i know he simply asked, but again, i’m talking about op talking as if he was obliged to explain and get into). Communication is needed in a relationship but when things blow up it’s also equally important to take some time alone and think things over. ML blowing up was completely understandable especially since even we don’t know why he’s doing part. 2, it could easily be a sensitive subject he would want to avoid and he has the right to, yet, his partner doubted him, asked him to quit a part of his work he warned before he wouldn’t quit and on top of that it wasn’t his first time. He expected this time to be different than with his ex gf yet it still happened all the same. I’m not taking sides here, i also understand Mc since the situation can bring complicated feelings alongside it and he might’ve thought he’d be fine only to find out later he wasn’t, but it doesn’t change the fact that despite mc finding out he’s not comfortable with the original agreement, Ml isn’t at fault either for feeling betrayed by the change. The issue i was addressing was ,once again, op saying ml deserved to be alone, simply for having personal boundaries. That’s what immature and unfair. I’m not exactly good at expressing my point of view, so i hope my point came across this time.

I wrote a whole ass essay, damn

MC was accepting at first, and that’s why I’m saying that he changed and sometimes people can’t help but change; it’s something you can’t control or hate on that for too long. Some people imply it like him changing is bad, I mean I guess but it’s not a crime or anything unethical is what I mean. Yes he went back on his words but remember, he was very accepting of it. Now he’s more insecure and ML isn’t helping reassure him by shutting him off and being overly defensive instead of calmly communicating. MC is more emotional and ML seems kinda like a robot compared to him, MC has spoken up a lot and asked, ML barely does and shares his side as if he doesn’t trust the MC. It feels like both ML and MC has some trust issues, so I don’t get why MC has to be blamed for all of this ( not saying you said that but some people have so I’m saying that).

Asking for a reason later on is fine too. I’m sure he just wanted to get it over with and date ML and didn’t think much of it. But to react violently and defensively is just wrong no matter if MC went back on his words, communicate for fucks sake. MC asked for a reason, he didn’t demand him to quit. He told him to limit it to stripping only but MC also didn’t say that if he doesn’t quit, he will leave etc. He simply asked for a reason as to why he’s so insistent on being a sex worker. At first MC didn’t think much of it I believe so that’s on him but here he’s asking for a reason, a partner owes that much at least regardless of the situation.

And okay I get what you’re trying to say. I don’t think ML deserves to be alone either, that’s too much of course, but other than that, yes he owes him an explanation but MC should’ve also asked earlier on so that’s also on him. Wrong timing is the issue here too.

Lol that’s okay it happens. I blink and there’s a essay

And you did fine explaining! I’m really tired rn so forgive me for any misinformation. And ML should’ve also seen that MC was very understanding at first and accepting of it, their views were also different, ML knew that. MC told him that he won’t sleep with others because he has ML. They have different views and both knew, this shit was bound to happen. It was forecasted.

I’m guessing the author is going for a happy ending but to be honest, so far, not so good. To me they didn’t have the best chemistry going on but i felt like it was fine cause they had a mutual understanding, but now i’m worried about the direction it’ll take ngl

Seeing the raws I’m disappointed with ML but I’m mostly concerned about the little brother of MC and his bf. Ugh this is so annoying, thank gosh it’s on hiatus for a bit haha

I never said things cannot change? And while yes he didn’t tell the mc the reason that doesn’t mean he wasn’t communicating he has his own boundaries and those boundaries should be respected even if u are in a relationship you dont have to tell your partner everything about yourself something are meant to be kept to yourself if you don’t want to share them and your significant other has no right to demand that you tell them something you are obviously not ready to tell them about.

I didn’t say you said things cannot change, I’m just saying it. MC and ML didn’t really make a boundary about that, MC wouldn’t know if ML didn’t tell him he isn’t ready to say it yet. MC is only crossing the boundaries if he is aware of ML not being ready to say yet and he demands for an answer regardless.

MC didn’t demand. He asked for a reason, that’s it. If you can’t even communicate that you’re not ready to say it yet and be violent, that’s on you.

What are u ever on about at this point I don’t think we are reading the same bl

Yes

Ikr it’s always toxic seme or them raping the uke for absolutely no reason

FRR I'm tired of these toxic ass semes