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You have to fix yourself, yourself. I know it’s a cliche for someone to come fix the messed up character, but in reality you don’t get into a relationship to fix an bad, abusive person. Not healthy or a good idea whatsoever

I feel you

I did. I was possessive af when I was in college. I did things my way and made things hard for my bf. I didn’t hurt him physically but with the mental and emotional abuse and stress that I gave him, he hurt himself physically. Unlike Chiwoo, my bf didn’t broke up with me nor did he try to. We’ve been like that and our relationship worsened over time, specially me. I saw him suffering but I just didn’t want to let go. I LOVE HIM. A few months before we graduated, I discovered yaoi and it changed my life lol. I properly cut ties with him, apologized for the pain I know it’s never gonna heal, isolated myself not only from people around me, but I also isolated me from myself. I knew I had to change. Since then I’ve been withdrawn from people, even from my family. I’m scared to get too close to people cause I might hurt them again so I put a lot of distance from them. But life is going well for me rn and I heard that months after our break up, my bf found himself a proper gf and that they are happy together. It hurts that I’m not the one by his side but I’m honestly happy for him. Took me 2 years to accept that fact. So hate me all you want. I empathize with Jihyun and just like me, I hope he can fix himself or find a partner that will do so. The end.

exactly, why didnt they holds hand, at least if they did it will be a very nice ending< i really really disappointed about the ending, it supposed to be more love and warmth and what about the boss is he agreed about their relationship? i guess we will never know

It’s as if they still don’t trust each other in the end

yeah exactly and it will take time until they get together as before