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Lately, there have been quite a few...conflicts in mangago and tbh as a girl who reads bl (and many other genres) for years now, I never realised that me liking it was so controversial. Like, is reading bl a bad thing? I understand where ppl are coming from and I also feel that there should be a limit. Such as seperating fiction from reality, for example, reading romantisced rape is ok as long as when it happens in real life u don't try to justify it and understand that its wrong or reading bl and know that you shoudnt apply fiction to reality and make others uncomfortable. I am a firm believer of this rule and I hope others can follow this rule too.
Thx for reading this and I hope everyone can just stop insulting others on mangago and make this site healthy again. (づ￣ ³￣)づ

Me and my friend have been together for like 5 years now. Today, I made a joke and they took it as an insult. I think I hurt them with it and I really want to apologise (I already did once but I feel like it might not be sincere enough or they just ignored it). I dont know if I can let our relationship just die like that because I really don't know what to do espically if our group will have to split up because of it. Please give me some advice ╥﹏╥