That aint how bdsm is working bro... and you can't play this with a person who you know is scared to speak his mind and also to dissapoint you...
Just because you slap a safe word there it doesn't make it safe. The uke is not even confortable to use that word and you don't even care to check up with him to see if he's enjoying it...
hmm but isn't the whole point a punishment? I'm sure that ash KNOWS that lyle is enjoying it but he doesnt wanna make it seem like they're enjoying their time but wants to make lyle realize it truly is his punishment for keeping a secret from him. And didnt lyle seriously consider locking ash up before?? Lmao I'd say hes a grown man who knows what hes been roped into before it even happened
Finally someone that pinpoints why this feels wrong! Fully agree, this isn't safe bdsm practice, just the author inserting their fetish in a sloppy manner LMAO which is ok imo but the girlies in the comments must not be familiar with bdsm play (fair) bc they're being TOO alarmist i think
hmm but isn't the whole point a punishment? I'm sure that ash KNOWS that lyle is enjoying it but he doesnt wanna make it seem like they're enjoying their time but wants to make lyle realize it truly is his puni... lenny
The point of a punishment is to be fun for both parties, not to make the one who receives it uncomfortable or not even asking for explicit consent from his side.
Like before a play especially in the beginning of a bdsm relationship both parties should have a detailed conversation about likes and dislikes which they didnt have.
And why punish someone for having things they dont want ro talk about? Even if you are in a relationship your partner has no right to force you to talk about things you dont feel confortable to talk about and you also have the right to keep things only to yourself.
Even if you are a grown up person you shouldnt assume that the person in front of you is mature enough to talk about these things and you should have a proper conversation about everything. Explicit consent is not optional but mandatory.
Finally someone that pinpoints why this feels wrong! Fully agree, this isn't safe bdsm practice, just the author inserting their fetish in a sloppy manner LMAO which is ok imo but the girlies in the comments mu... SkepticCyndaquil
Yesss! Agree with all you said! Is really scary how many people think this is safe bdsm just because they have a safe word. Bdsm is a lot more than that. You need to talk talk talk. Before, after, during. You need to talk all the time. Even if you are in a long term relationship, maybe a partner just isn't feeling it one day. You shouldn't assume that you know everything about your partener ever. You gotta talk a looot
That aint how bdsm is working bro... and you can't play this with a person who you know is scared to speak his mind and also to dissapoint you...
Just because you slap a safe word there it doesn't make it safe. The uke is not even confortable to use that word and you don't even care to check up with him to see if he's enjoying it...
hmm but isn't the whole point a punishment? I'm sure that ash KNOWS that lyle is enjoying it but he doesnt wanna make it seem like they're enjoying their time but wants to make lyle realize it truly is his punishment for keeping a secret from him. And didnt lyle seriously consider locking ash up before?? Lmao I'd say hes a grown man who knows what hes been roped into before it even happened
Finally someone that pinpoints why this feels wrong! Fully agree, this isn't safe bdsm practice, just the author inserting their fetish in a sloppy manner LMAO which is ok imo but the girlies in the comments must not be familiar with bdsm play (fair) bc they're being TOO alarmist i think
The point of a punishment is to be fun for both parties, not to make the one who receives it uncomfortable or not even asking for explicit consent from his side.
Like before a play especially in the beginning of a bdsm relationship both parties should have a detailed conversation about likes and dislikes which they didnt have.
And why punish someone for having things they dont want ro talk about? Even if you are in a relationship your partner has no right to force you to talk about things you dont feel confortable to talk about and you also have the right to keep things only to yourself.
Even if you are a grown up person you shouldnt assume that the person in front of you is mature enough to talk about these things and you should have a proper conversation about everything. Explicit consent is not optional but mandatory.
Yesss! Agree with all you said! Is really scary how many people think this is safe bdsm just because they have a safe word. Bdsm is a lot more than that. You need to talk talk talk. Before, after, during. You need to talk all the time. Even if you are in a long term relationship, maybe a partner just isn't feeling it one day. You shouldn't assume that you know everything about your partener ever.
You gotta talk a looot