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Recommend me some omegaverse with heart wrenching pain cause I think I need it
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For myself, I'm a queer human jus' livin' it up

For me it's incredibly hard to indulge in straight anything when it comes to comics, it actually is physically difficult.

Heteros out there you cool, I jus' don't like the cliche stuff usually targeted at dudes. OR young girls because they always the same stuff, damsel in distress etc

I'm in the LGBTQ+ community and I'm here and there

A lot of the hate has been because a loud portion of fujos FETISHIZE ACTUAL GAY MEN.

See tho, sadly I been seein' we all been thrown into the same pot.

People argue queer women are the only one allowed to consume so and I think that's bullshit.

The real issue is that women are taking FANTASY and pushing it on NORMAL PEOPLE. Who happen to be gay. It's dehumanizing and wrong.

I had an issue with this a bit when I was younger. I want people to know it's never out of malice. That DOESN'T justify it. Fujos are not the victims of anything.

BUT IT DOESN'T MAKE HARASSMENT OK.

It's something that should be TAUGHT.

TEACH these kids how to treat people. You don't get rid of inequity with MORE HATE.

For myself;

Yaoi is how I accept myself for who I am and relax.

Yaoi is how I've become MORE ACCEPTING with queerness in society AND WITHIN MYSELF.

Yaoi is how I explored my sexuality safely.

Yaoi is how I became more loving of those who are not as society wishes us to be, especially with gender non-conformity.

Not all yaoi has good messages. That's a fact, I can't change that.

I prefer indulging in yaoi with real people and real men just loving each other, but I indulge in others as well. I can't justify what goes on all I can say is my moral standing isn't based off media I consume.

Wanna know a great example of this? Video games lmao.


I just wish y'all would understand we ain't the same.

No, we shouldn't gate keep porn. No we shouldn't maliciously generalize. No we shouldn't hate people off of what they enjoy without purposeful harm.

What we SHOULD do is understand it is NOT okay OR right to not treat REAL people as people.


I want to put out there, yaoi is on all extreme ends of nearly everything. I could go on and ponder why but that'd make this too long lol

But really. There's beautiful queer representation in yaoi.

On the other end, yaoi is like a sort of pseudo straight relationship under the guise of two men. So there's many grey lines of whether we can really say it represents the community when it shoes no resemblance of so.


And there's stories that push limits to the brink in experimentation.

Not all yaoi is created equal. Not all yaoi is good. Not all yaoi is bad.

The same is for it's fans.

For me this goes for yuri as well. I feel like by demonizing queer relationships in media and lovers of so you demonize US OURSELVES. Please think twice and try to consider us and the existence of the genre as a WHOLE before you write us down as one thing.


Sorry for the long ass rant. I just don't like the hate it's been getting.


I'm a queer individual who's in and loves the LGBTQ+ community.

I don't like how we're being treated as if we shouldn't be in media, I don't like how people are getting hate for their sexual desires.

Just remember guys. Treat us ALL like humans. We all deserve that. Gay or straight.

Thanks for reading lol hope it doesn't come out as disrespectful and hope you can see my side- Idm disagreeing just be civil please. <3

It's amazing how some ppl claim Taku was with Haesoo out of the goodness of his heart, and wanted to "save" him from an unhealthy relationship i- like what now?? Reading comprehension where???
Taku got interested in Haesoo after seeing his story about his step brother: he wanted to mess with that relationship. Taku's exhibition themes were: Loss / Love —a choice he thought Haesoo would be so *perfect* for due to his relationship with Joowon. No, it was never about Haesoo's wellbeing lol. There’s literally a scene where he implicitly tells Haesoo to think of Joowon for the photoshoot, right after their breakup, and thinks: “I knew he was hurt, but I wanted to see something more”. He wasn't trying to make Haesoo feel better, but instead he was intrigued & captivated by Haesoo’s hurt and pain over Joowon. He even admits in the end, after he grew attached to Haesoo: "From the start Haesoo only had eyes for one person. Perhaps those unwavering eyes were what I loved most” -- proving how transfixed he was by Haesoo's feelings for Joowon.

Taku says in his character interview from the start that he's "opportunistic" when it comes to relationships. Example: him comforting Haesoo crying... it parallels Taku's ex-bf being comforted by him & getting upset cause Taku is just PRETENDING. It's the same w/ Haesoo. He didn't do that with genuine feelings, but just as a "habit" like Haesoo says. Taku also said, “it felt good to see you sad” and how he knows hes selfish but its cause he likes to feel needed. So him chasing after Haesoo wasnt sincere, but self-interest & intrigue (“I wanted to see the kind of story he writes when im gone” HELLO??).

There's multiple metaphors about it too (lmaoo not me writing about the metaphors when ppl can't even get the blatant text of Taku saying MULTIPLE TIMES how he's "not a good person" and that he likes Haesoo for selfish reasons... but anyway the metaphors are interesting to me <333). First his photography: Taku always focused on the frozen images and what's within the lenses, instead of life in the present. He captured what he wanted & ignored the rest. Second: the candy. He says all relationships are the same to him: just "sugar/additives despite the different colours". He doesn’t like the taste of bitterness, only the sweetness. It ALL shows how Taku only wanted the good and superficial things in life. He selfishly liked to be needed by someone else, but without any of the burden of real feelings. It’s only through letting himself get attached to Haesoo & realizing Haesoo’s pretend love isn’t enough for him, that he describes Haesoo’s kiss as "bitter".

Honestly I know how upsetting it is to see your ship sink. But if you step back and read carefully: you realize that Yeongha literally built Taku's character to GET HEARTBROKEN and experience the bitter things in life,, because he'd been so numb to that feeling otherwise. (It makes me curious abt Taku's backstory honestly. like what made him this way??)

im trying to get into gl, ive read tamen de gushi (and love it) but thas it, any recommendations like that ?

Everyone is so excited about Killing stalking about it looks very violent with a lot of abuse. I wonder if I should read it but most of the time I try to steer clear of violence but everyone is saying it's amazing! Can anyone help me make the decision ( tell me if it has a good story, am I gonna cry, what's the worst violent thing that happens, is it a happy ending?ect...)