
I do not like that everyone is keeping him in the dark like that. He is a grown man and wouldn't it be way more relieving to find out that you're supported? Sure embarrassed at first but in the long run mentally it'd be so much better. It just feels so selfish to deprive him of that. I don't know the seme really rubs me the wrong way and it sorta feels like he is putting the Uke in a cage by blocking him from support and just overall being obsessive. "He wouldn't have anything to talk to you about anyways" Um, sir that's his good friend. Who is he suppose to talk to if not him? Don't get me wrong- I love my fair share of yanderes and similar dark stories. I just sort some reason find it kinda unsettling in this one since the Uke seems completely oblivious to the cage being formed around him; It feels like watching a golden retriever being hunted by a wolf. Answer phone immediately, text me back immediately, tell me where you are, no hanging out with men and women without me there like come on man someone has to say something. I feel like I'm watching my friend in a toxic relationship

I haven't read the novel so I'm only speaking for the manga. I'm aware he is noticing the seme's behavior but he isn't taking it as serious as I think he should and I feel like it's escalating. It's at a slow pace but it is. And currently, with what we have chapter wise, the uke doesn't know his parents and friend support his sexuality. He even mentioned how he wished he could be open about his love life and felt sad he couldn't; This is the type of support I'm talking about. Now, things probably change in the manga's future and I know, like majority of mangas, he'll find out and all their troubles will float away until happy ever after. I'm just saying the current situation with what we have and know to be true, is eerily similar to a toxic relationship. Don't get me wrong, the idea of it is romantic to an extent. Who wouldn't want a guy that in love and obsessed with you? I don't even hate the seme. The relationship is just unnerving in my opinion. ā®( ̄ā½ļæ£)ā

Love your take, these are my exact thoughts. This type of men are hot in fiction, but irl your lover shouldnāt get between you and your friends and family. Heās taking advantage of mcās naivety, and it obviously disturbs mc because he keeps saying that he is only accepting this behavior because he loves ml. Their relationship is on the threshold to toxicity.

Exactly my thoughts as well. It's unnerving to me due to the mindset I'm noticing of, "Well, because I love him, I'll accept these bad sides of him. He loves me so it's okay." You love someone and you can set boundaries; In fact, you should set boundaries. This is the type of things a friend in a toxic relationship says. "Oh but I love him so it's okay. He loves me so I know he isn't doing it to hurt me. I don't want him to worry." No one should have more control over your life than yourself. Usually, in stories like these, the main protagonists fight for this. However, I understand the MC we have is more on the sheltered side which makes it more sad than romantic to me.
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I like that Mister treats Blondie like a man. Like, I feel like the uke is turned into a woman because they're a bottom much of the time so it's refreshing to see him be like "Well, I like you and you're a man. That makes me gay." Or "Don't call a man pretty. He is handsome." He did have this weird fetishizing gaze on him like "he looks like a woman so im attracted to him". Overall dude was such a green flag and had a very reasonable view of things in my opinion
Dudes bipolar god its so funny i literally cant predict what this dude will like and dislike. Its like those unpredictable dialogue options in video games