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ggaahhh they are sooooo ccuuuttteee!!! I lowkey wish they confirmed that the little girl from his childhood memories was actually this guy!! I know we are just supposed to assume but stllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
Ok I am here to RANT or ask for opinions but here is a cute manga so I hopefully don't get restricted https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/barairo_my_honey/ I am 20 and still live with my mom. Yes sad I know but the thing is she has made it impossible for me to survive without her. She holds onto all of my personal id (ssn card, passport, etc.)and has a bank account open for "me" that I don't have access to. So I can't get a job or it is at least pretty hard to without my id and if I did get a job I can't open another bank account without my id which would then mean I'd have to put it in the one only she has access to. So I can't move out, I can't even get a drivers license (you need id to get a drivers license) I can't get a job and I have no independence. I also can't go outside or do anything without asking her first so I have lived a horrible life inside, and I'm saying this as an introvert, so its bad. (I'm probably an introvert because of her but still) My friends are planning on driving to UCSC, where a friend of ours goes, and stay for a week but of course I have to ask for permission. Well long story short she said no and her reasoning is that I don't have a job, don't have good enough grades, and don't have a drivers license. I used to understand the grade thing but I am simply not an exceptional student, due to my "crappy" grades (asian family soo idek(they were pretty crap in high school)) I only attended one school dance at my high school (freshman year homecoming) and had never attended a single football game, my "curfew" was sometimes 3 or 4 (school ends at 3ish and she used to call the home phone to make sure I was home(i lived close by but I sometimes had to jump the fence to be able to make it in time for the Fing phone call)) and I could never hangout with friends. I am in college now but due to the pandemic I am at home all day, and somehow I miss school bc at least I could go outside and see my friends. I had somehow convinced myself that my mother would let me go on this trip bc I've been stuck at home all day, the vaccine, and bc UCSC has bi-weekly covid tests for all their students meaning my friend definitely doesnt have covid and all my other friends are vaccinated and I'm responsible enough to wear a mask. But obviously I was wrong and now I'm super upset and want to get out of this relationship but cannot bc she has made it impossible for me to survive without her.
Bestie...thats straight up abuse...
she aint doing a very good job of being a mom
Sis..... U a victim
what happened to your dad?? You can consult him about it so he can talk it out for you if you're afraid to tell her in her face.....
You can tell her the reason that you can't get a job is because of her binding you in her life
i'm gonig to tell u this..u might think this is not the best..have u ever argue with her about those reasons?if not..(it looks like talking won't work)try it...this is way too toxic sweet heart..how did u even make it this far..i'm rooting for u and ur future...wish u good luck...and don't normalize ur mother's behavior it's not normal..
Hi everyone,
dad is not in the picture, I fight with her a lot and it sorta just makes the situation worse.
Parents that limit their kids like this are only setting them up for failure. I would suggest confronting her but with parents like that, you need to be sneaky. The only way is probably moving out so you should start planning how to leave. This might help you give you an insight on how to leave abusive households https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeGj1oae/
start hanging around friends and look at the bad shit shes doing to u so u lose attachment w her start being distant and stuff your mum is kinda
manipulative ik how u feel
I hope you are fine, I think your mom being too overprotective. She's not fine. I guess you're already an adult.. this is your life, why don't you try to talk with your mom abt this .. ask her why she being like this .. pls do not control my life too much .. but i think ur mom kinda creep. u need to collect money so you can find a home or apartment to live in.. do you have any siblings? if you not .. maybe she doing all of this bcs she loves you .. we need to think positively. but your mom is too much, as I can see you are such a good daughter. i cn understand you cuz I'm an Asian
So I think my mom is like this because she knows I can't live without her. Every single time we fight she threatens to kick me out knowing full well that I dont have any possibility to survive. I don't have a job, a car, a drivers license, or a bank account I have access to. To be able to get those things I need my id, but she won't give them to me. When I ask, she just tells me she'll give them to me when I move out but i can't move out without her giving them to me??? I need a job, a car, a drivers license, and a bank account to be able to survive by myself but to get all of these I need my id. So she has me stuck in this awful loop that is impossible to get out of.
try to talk to your friend about this situation and they might will find u a way..if not talk to one of their parents..bt make sure nothing will mess up..earn their trust and...tell them what's going on..and that u need their help..
Ok I am here to rant or ask for opinions but here is a cute manga so I hopefully don't get restricted https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/barairo_my_honey/
I am 20 and still live with my mom. Yes sad I know but the thing is she has made it impossible for me to survive without her. She holds onto all of my personal id (ssn card, passport, etc.)and has a bank account open for "me" that I don't have access to. So I can't get a job or it is at least pretty hard to without my id and if I did get a job I can't open another bank account without my id which would then mean I'd have to put it in the one only she has access to. So I can't move out, I can't even get a drivers license (you need id to get a drivers license) I can't get a job and I have no independence. I also can't go outside or do anything without asking her first so I have lived a horrible life inside, and I'm saying this as an introvert, so its bad. (I'm probably an introvert because of her but still) My friends are planning on driving to UCSC, where a friend of ours goes, and stay for a week but of course I have to ask for permission. Well long story short she said no and her reasoning is that I don't have a job, don't have good enough grades, and don't have a drivers license. I used to understand the grade thing but I am simply not an exceptional student, due to my "crappy" grades (asian family soo idek(they were pretty crap in high school)) I only attended one school dance at my high school (freshman year homecoming) and had never attended a single football game, my "curfew" was sometimes 3 or 4 (school ends at 3ish and she used to call the home phone to make sure I was home(i lived close by but I sometimes had to jump the fence to be able to make it in time for the Fing phone call)) and I could never hangout with friends. I am in college now but due to the pandemic I am at home all day, and somehow I miss school bc at least I could go outside and see my friends. I had somehow convinced myself that my mother would let me go on this trip bc I've been stuck at home all day, the vaccine, and bc UCSC has bi-weekly covid tests for all their students meaning my friend definitely doesnt have covid and all my other friends are vaccinated and I'm responsible enough to wear a mask. But obviously I was wrong and now I'm super upset and want to get out of this relationship but cannot bc she has made it impossible for me to survive without her.
No. Don't read it. This is awful in every way possible. It's almost a horror story. It's not even outrageous enough to be funny like other harlequins. It's just disgusting. Don't waste your time