JUST APOLOGIZE. Dude quite getting mad that he keeps telling you to fuck.off YOU DID THAT FIRST HE HAS EVERY REASON TO NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. This could all be solved if you swallow your pride, tell him how you feel and apologize, WASN'T APOLOGIZING THE ONLY REASON YOU CAME BACK?!!! I I have seen MANY stories with the reverse premise where the seme does something and has to apologize and the uke is mad, at leat those stories usually go right to the apologizing (although the uke doesn't want to forgive and the seme, but caves anyway) you apologizes while sick and unconscious, if course he isn't gonna take it seriously if you can't even do it while conscious and aware of the consequences. I can't can't I can't. Have a good day
Is it like a japanese thing to just trust kid's other than your child. I have read so many stories where the mom is just inviting kids over to their house after their child is like "I don't know them or I don't like them, or tells them straight up I don't want them here, and the mom is like hypnotized by the word friend or classmate. Like whaaaat. That didn't happen here, but I assume he didn't tell her in the end cuz she wouldn't believe him, which also happens or maybe he just wants to protect her, but what confuses me is that if I have never talked about or said anything about a classmate or friend who "cares" enough to come to my house looking for me, there is no way in hell my mom is inviting them in or talking leisurely, grabbing her phone and asking questions and whatnot, she would ask them to leave so she can figure it out. You know your kid was bullied and you don't even know who did it, but all of a sudden he has friends in real life who care about enough to know where he lives and check up on him, that sounds HELLA SUS.
I guess base on my own life and others, we barely share anything with our parents that involves our social life. But at the same time, as bleurgh stated that if your child has been bullied and you don't even know of bullies, won't a parent be suspicious when some random teens decides to visit your home who you clearly don't know about but they clearly want to see your kid for reasons?. Ik in our culture it's natural for the parent to know about their kid through other people like the child's friends, but the kid was literally bullied and has no known friends at all. So the mom letting in the bullies was really dumb, and the fact she believed that her son decides to travel the country by some weird ass reasons is bizarre as well.
If this village is likes village where I grow up before, it's make a sense because 1st u don't really know ur child well in the school and probably these children of the neighbors is worried but nothing close with my child on school, because maybe they just curious about my child well being but they don't close to him. We all have that one neighborhood kids that's on the same school as us but not close at all. U know if u questioning the child that's mean u questioning their parents? If she's already know the parents character she surely can trust their upbringing toward their children. That's like... not how u be a good neighbor here? If someone ask u wellbeing u just slam then with suspicious?
And moreover. Like what crazy bully comes to ur house and asking for the well-being of ur bully? And Ive been bullied too in the past. Except u are psiko like this child I doubt even the mother would know
And for traveling thing, honestly, that's not really bizzare because I know this one kids that choose to run from his house for watching soccer ball. And his parents more lack for him because he is male. He get in the truck with the other grown up and teens at the magrib and then back sore(? Noon but kinda before night?).
Again, idk what's happening with your grammar I guess you can say that, I'm a girl after all, even my mom doesn't worry where my brother goes, BUT it's because she knows where my brother is going and it's because the places he goes to are near, literally travelling the whole ass country ain't some casual thing for an 18 year old to do unless they had prior experience with someone. The character in the manga literally never had any prior experience or even knowledge, same goes with the mom as well. So basically it's really bullshit how clueless the mom is, it's like she doesn't have a brain, if someone explain something to her like how potatoes are actually mammals (which is obviously a lie) she'll believe it because the person's way of speaking is convincing
U'll be surprise how much leeway parents Asian can give to their precious male child. Moreover in this case it's single parent? Sure it's kinda sound bullshit about letting ur bullied kid going around to fight his depression (?) after being bullied but goddamn did I know some parent that can letting their children do some crazy thing eventho they don't know what they do because they believe it's benefit their child ToT I don't know, man. I know some crazy stories so letting ur son run away from home than killing himself inside his house kinda make a sense to me.
And again sorry for my English T^T
I was bullied and if I run away at that time it would for building myself a life better. Like, I know it's impossible. But not all bullied children thinking to killing themselves. Some thinking to run away from those bullies and life somewhere where u don't get bullied. Imagining a life thats being nice to u.
I'm just glad I have a good mother. So I still have an anchor to push myself well till now.
His mother is true a guible. Even the MC said it too. But I think if she putting hope that the reason her son running is not for killing himself or doing harm but to healing himself why not. Moreover he promise her to updating after that. Except if after no update in the future she doesn't searching for him then I would agree with u.
On chapter 46, why did she take monocle guys reason as to why she hadn't been promoted so harshly, she even admitted he was right, it's not like emhe yelled at her, he still complimented her ability, he just said she didn't put in any effort WHICH SHE DIDN'T, I understand why she didn't and I think he does too, but it didn't remove the fact that she still didn't. And then she asks for a promotion, as a boss he handled it quite well, but she can't return to work because of it, even the arachne chick told her she would have difficulties. And she was all "I don't think we could Elbe friend even thought he went to my funeral in the future" girl if someone just telling you, you can't be promoted because of your lack of effort is evil, you have some other stuff you should be worried about, it's times like these when call tell she is the youngest and only girl because she is spoiled and can't really take criticism,
I keep seeing how people say this is a green flag but I personally don't see it, their first time having sex was forceful and rapey with him saying no and I won't push you away cuz you will have a concussion and the same just taking that as a yes, I didn't like it and found it very uncomfortable. Now if you like the story and the couple that's fine I just can't handle scenes like that, if ink ew it was there I wouldn't have read it but, here I am, it was ok I guess before that, all the consensual touching while the smell was drunk and using his job as his employer because he knew he could get away with it is very icky. There were plenty of red flags for me and there could be for others so I am putting this here
I need a break, I on chapter 45 and I am literally trying to scratch through my phone to kill guemsan just basically raped 704 and san saw that shit and was like "so y'all having sex" did that SOUND LIKE SEX OR VIOLENCE he obviously knows the difference cuz he doesn't treat eunjae that way and feels it's wrong, I am honestl, ugh I just want him dead, he doesn't tell him shit, he treats him like shit, and rapes home like he is a piece of shit
Yeah the author kinda dropped the ball on their initial chapters. I think the rest of their story is written well but it's understandable if you couldn't get into it because Geumsan was written like a dick. I hated him too and while I liked the story, I didn't understand why the author made that decision and portray rape.
Their relationship is really complex and while it doesn't make it okay what Geumsan did, there is a point to it. He treats 704 the way he does with a purpose which is the author's overall statement, imo. Their story is the why of it all. Why are they like this, why did they become like this, will they always have to be like this?
Again, doesn't change the now but I think Yama sums it up nicely later on.
I dropped this awhile ago and forgot why, and since it was super popular and said to be whole I came back then I remembered why I dropped it, I just didn't like how pushy yechan was about his feelings and stuff, I get he was excited and really liked him ,I just felt uncomfortable with all the following, confessing, forcing him to answer his calls and basically drove sun yool I to a corner to give up and open his heart a little especially after he had JUST broke up with someone. I am not saying he is bad or anything the story is quite wholesome I just didn't like how yechan was acting made me.super uncomfortable PERSONALLY. This type of behavior can be seen as cute and puppy like and I have no problem with people seeing it that way, I just don't. I don't want to make it seem like the story is trash or anything like I said it is still a wholesome story just not something I would continue for the reasons stated would just leave a bitter taste in my mouth
thank god i’m not alone. yechan was just waaaayyy too over the top for me personally. i get he’s not used to anyone his age or having feelings about someone but he was really pushy and needy about whatever he wanted. he expected results NOW without any room for yool to breathe… idk it’s very fluffy and wholesome just too much of yechan being so.. hmmm, energetic i guess? i wish he would’ve taken a breath and just chilled out for a moment
I don’t think he was “too” pushy, yool being fresh out of a relationship isn’t really a factor cause it had been over for a long while, they just didn’t wanna call it that till now, so it has nothing to do with the breakup being fresh, his real problem was where he was in life 8 years into his decision to give up music for his ex and to give into his dad’s demands and where he stood now in that depressive state
And yechan is being underestimated, first by the ex then yool assuming yechan himself doesn’t know he likes yool when he DOES know, and then yool basically teases and flirts with him till yechan finally confesses and then yool panics cause he didn’t expect yechan to be so self aware and tries to run away from the confession? And yechan isn’t stupid he knows yool likes him too that’s why he’s persistent and doesn’t allow yool to act like it never happened just cause yool was overthinking things when it’s simple,
plus he might be older but he wasn’t wiser he was lost about what he should do and depresso and not taking care of himself and needed a friend like yechan that has his shit together to overstep boundaries (which weren’t even really boundaries cause yool COULD entirely push him away if he wanted to, bro didn’t even change the front door passcode) and step in and take care of him, yool didn’t need to be left alone he needed that kind of stable positive force pushing him to rediscover his passion for music
The only way he pushed romantically was not allowing yool to pretend his confession didn’t happen, he didn’t expect romance back from him here and now, and any other affection he showed was just him being him and yool didn’t mind it at all, and even if you pretend yool didn’t like him and yechan was unwelcome yu can’t keep calling it that past the end of summer, yool kept in touch with him with video calls and meeting yechan throughout his military service, like the walls he was putting up were made out of styrofoam from the start
I mean sure, I still find doing those things weird even if the the person lets it happen, I just don't like seeing it, especially cuz I have alot of boundaries, and because I can be a pushover and be overly nice especially when I don't want to do something it just makes me uncomfortable to watch, that's all
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