I knew I was queer since I was 12. I loved my mom a lot back then. So I told her playfully thinking nothing much of it. To my surprise, she did not take it well. That's when I knew i fked up. But she didn't respond properly so I wanted to give her another chance. Told her again in 13. But this time she said "My child can't be like this". It was the......
I don't judge kinks like that, although heaven knows I couldn't date someone like that due non compatibility. If you don't really vibe with his kink and it makes you uncomfortable then yeah, I would leave. If you can tolerate it, then it's really up to you.
I mean the thing with kinks is they are all a little gross or unsafe in some way. that's what makes them kinky, and that's ok. the most important thing with it is ensuring all involved are comfortable and consenting. so talk rules, set boundaries, if your not comfortable with something or want something talk it out with your partner. find the lin......
Coming out trauma