Destroyerofnonbelievers want to read (All 11)
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Not him spitting the dick out PLSSSSSSSS and him saying “ I don’t really want to say it so ima just let you assume and this is my confirmation going forward that the assumption is right” is a CRAZYYYY communication dynamic
So recently I had a sudden death in the family and it’s hit me pretty hard. It’s still hard to even process and I’m using my only “healthy” escape tool I know and has worked for me ALL my life. Asian entertainment. I love anime manga manhwa kdramas Korean sitcom Bollywood movies etc etc. Its the only thing that makes me feel thats things are alright when I at other times I feel like nothing’s worth it. Anyway I am a black woman and my family has NEVER shown respect for my interest and it’s usually fine but im sooo mad right now. When someone passes suddenly and unexpectedly and it’s from natural causes it’s like your mad with no one to be mad at. It’s like there’s no killer or idiot behind the whee or no drug that ruined everything it just happened and it shouldn’t have tho because they were so young all that and the third. Moral of the story I’m angry with no one to be angry at so this situation pissed me off further. I’m watching it’s okay to not be okay a kdrama in the living room while i watch my niece. Soon enough my moma decides she wants to see the baby but before she leaves with the baby in a mocking tone she going to say to the baby. Your aunty got you in here watching this chingchongching. I immediately told her that was racist and offensive which she said it’s not but I know it is. And I know she prob thought it was a joke but I’m PISSED OFF how dare you mock one of the few thing that bring me solace in this world especially when you aren’t one of them. I don’t know mannnn I guess my question is I want to press the issue I want her to know she wrong but I also kno I’m prob running off of negative emotions at this moment and it’ll do nobody any good to start an arguement while we’re mourning. Should I drop it and let it go or should I go tell her why she shouldn’t say that and how it made me feel? I know this is a lot sorry lol.
First of, let me just start by mentioning that I was very moved by your story. The way you handled the situation and retorted that it was racist (which of course it was) is something to be proud of. You are racially aware and that already says a lot about you as a person. All of that being said, I think this isn’t the right time to start an argument because your good intentions to make others racially sensitive will only trigger others struggling to cope right now. Your angry comment will not make her change her views but dig a deeper hole and possibly make her spite the Asian culture because she may unconsciously think it turned you against her. When it’s a better time, you guys can have a calm conversation and discuss how it’s important to you and helps you cope. For now, let it go. There will definitely be a better time where everyone is in a better state of mind to have an open discussion.
PS - I just finished watching it’s okay to not be okay last week. I’m so glad you’re watching it! You do you! Our community will cheer for your happiness.
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