There's stigma that kink HAS to relate to trauma and that kink interests are directly related to the trauma someone has experienced, but that isn't true at all.
However, that also doesn't meant that it can't relate to it.
If the kink is something that you feel comfortable engaging in then there is no reason why you should feel like it is bad or ...... reply
English (fluent), Japanese (fluent), French (basic to intermediate), German (basic), Spanish (basic). I'm half Japanese, and my mom is German and El Salvadorian so I kinda just learned everything :P reply
Not a man, but when I was in 3rd grade, one of the older guys in 6th held me against the fence with his friends and touched me. when i tried to get away he punched me and i ended up getting a black eye. People heard me crying so they came over and saw that I got hit. They got suspended for violence, but no one knows what actually happened. 1 reply