Honestly I think Tora is relatable.
Most partners are like that.
If you love someone and want to keep them with you despite everything they did to hurt you, you would be like him especially with a backstory like him.
As for Masami wasn't it?
Multiple lovers are like a safety nets for him.
It's not like Tora doesn't know that in the first place. They are both adults.
I'm not justifying anything.
No matter where I read it, his face and attitude is still trashy.
Give me back Heinley and Kapmen!!