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This better not be one of those stories where they raise the kid like they’re own child and then end up getting with them it’s so nasty nd played out
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Yeah... not mentally tho? It's the struggle with mcs that get in a youger body. If they get together with someone same body age they are groomers/pedos and if they get with someone same mental/soul age the partners are the pedo/groomer ones...
But to me the absolute worse is when besides the "age gap" they are raised as siblings and get together. Be it step or adopted... and just to be clear I'm talking about the brought in as family member and not as future spouse or as sponsorship, those are bad in another sense but less worse to me...
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You should know by the description that this is 100% one where the FL picks up the ML early in life and he loves her his whole life lmao I just take solace knowing they usually dont get together until they are adults. Also theres no winning in this situation if you like isekai/regression. Either the FL goes with someone their own physical age or ends up with a grandpa.. I just decide to let it be as its not like the FL goes into this wanting to groom someone
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Yep! My bottom line in those... is if she "thinks" like an adult... but simps over the kid... if she keeps gushing about how pretty, beautiful or handsome he is and keep being dazed by their looks... that's when I feel to Eeeeew to keep reading. Even more so if they are less than 10yo... like 11 12yo I can still pass it as first puppy love... but younger than that... it's fricking weird...
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I agree. Ones where the FL is like "wow hes so handsome" and starts blushing over a literal child makes me ill and its an insta drop for me. Intentions are what matters in this situation. Like did FL genuinely want to help them or have non romantic motives and ML fell for them and they end up together as adults? Perfectly fine. Or was her intention always romantic/she falls for him early on? Disgusting and drop. I also think its wrong if FL cultivates a family-like bond (i.e. acknowledges that they are like their son) then falls in love.. like that one with the witch and ML is a blonde who she raises from childhood. Its a genre with a surprising amount of nuance lol my general rules of thumb are 1) FL should have non romantic intentions 2) ML should fall first 3) No reciprocated romance until they are adults
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Bro he bouta make me mad he always finding more shit to misinterpret like wdym he's “drawing a line” like bro he just wants to clean up for u so u can rest tf u talking about he's treating u like a “house guest” like what? He js be making up shit to be insecure about atp. Has he not learned his lesson with the miscommunication like cmon bitch y'all are dating
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i wouldn't say he's "making things up" per se, even if he has definitely gotten in his own head about it.
we know he takes everthing at face value and isn't the best at reading between the lines. it's just that he's already super sensitive about the living together thing because STUPID AIDEN (the real villain as far as i'm concerned) put it in his head that he's an 'inconvenience'. not to mention, ash just said to him point blank "maybe it is best if you get your own place".
it's not really miscommunication. he already told ash he feels like an inconvenience, and instead of assuring lyle that he isnt, ash 'f*cked it better', insisted on looking at houses for him together, and then told him it might be best if he moved out. there's not a whole lot there for lyle to misinterpret.
ik ash clearly has smth going on, like he's in prerut or whatever and can't like think straight, but lyle isn't being unreasonable for thinking maybe he's moving things too fast and one of his biggest fears is that ash will get sick of him because hes 'simple' and 'boring' and leave.
ash is the one that knows karlyle isn't the best at deciphering subtext, and is aware of lyles insecurities and isn't just telling him plainly 'i want you to move in, i love having you here, please don't move out'- but again, prerut or whatever, i know.
all that to say, i don't think it's so much a miscommunication issue as it is very unfortunate timing; aiden being a menace, and ash being rendered unable to notice whats happening and nip karlyle's worries in the bud.
(i hope this comes across as like, friendly discussion! im not trying to start an argument or anything, im just the #1 karlyle defender lmao)
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in karlyles defense this is his first relationship, his friend said that shit to mess with him (although he likely thought it wouldnt be taken so seriously), and he has social skills relating (almost) to professional environments and relationships only.
hes just insecure and needs some affirmation man
Why are they reuploading? are the chapters different now that it’s on lehizin or what?
for consistency