i got so irked of his decisions to pull strings to make her quit her job. its degrading for me, yurae graduated from parsons, it by itself is already something to her character, she can do things her way, but he had to go out there and ruin things for her. selfish, cowardly, apathetic, all that money he better be seeing a therapist
i absolutely adore heewons stoic nature as much as i absolutely adore that doojoon is expressive (albeit not communicative). im not going to blame either of the 2 for the lack of trust they have in each other, especially not heewon because doojon DID in fact overstep a boundary heewon has has been frantically trying to uphold when it comes to commitment. heewon as abandonment and intimacy issue bc of what she went through with her parents marriage, these kinds of things dont go away especially when an unborn fetus comes into the picture and it doesnt magically appear with marriage either, so please see her with more compassion.
but in case you dont went through something like what she did, dont call a person annoying because they have principles to uphold. especially when that principle is a personal belief and not harmful. distrusting marriage institution is common, and people with trauma cant just gloss over the root of the problem because some hot rich emotionally unavailable childhood friend comes back into their lives tugging on their weakness to get them into a contract marriage....the whole guilt tripping situation is already very complicated but now we know she has a deep seated trauma so of course she wont throw herself into a marriage just like that. shes practically unraveling and unbecoming because every choice she makes, be it marrying or not marrying yejun, will bring her emotional scars. can fault a girl for taking her time to think things through, methinks
Very good comment, really. So many people are like "sure, a hot guy will make everything better, she'll be happy ever after"... sure, his looks are definitely going to make her scars disappear and dissolve all the sadness and other negative feelings within her.