I did not sympathize with that woman but i wanna tell if any of y'all resonate with what she's going thru rn, then i'm sure you know that it's not going to end well if u place value on others' approval. Start by noticing more on things you genuinely like (that is not sourced by others' approval). Even if it's that small wild flower you found on the side of a street, or when the rain's earthy smell that accompanied your nap yesterday. By collecting more on things that you genuinely like, some day you'll manage to recollect your own sense of self