Honestly I think the chef said that to Sooha because earlier when they asked Sooha what type of person he liked he actually said girland So I think that because Sooha was drunk that night Chef probably thinks it meant nothing to Sooha.
See that's what's wrong with people you can't demand something like that of people and don't tell them the reasons why, especially overly nice people that have people who know there wraknesses.
Bitter table for two please!!