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It originated in earlier English (I guess around the 1800s?) as meaning 'clean' or 'pure' or 'virtuous' or anything that family or kids could enjoy. (Basically stuff that isn't R18, but there is some R18 out there that people might call wholesome, too, just because it's 'softer'.) Fandom kind of took it as the 'pure' and 'cute' definition and start......   reply

If it disgusts you so much, then what are you doing on this site, anyway? If it doesn't appeal to you, then it doesn't appeal to you, but I'd encourage you to read more BL to get a better picture and broader scope of the many different types of stories in the genre. There are plenty of people who write BL and GL, and there are a good number who are......   2 reply

I'm a lesbian fujoshi, and lmao I wouldn't do it due to yaoi, I'd do it if my partner was interested in it.   reply

I'm a lesbian and I came out to my sister first! She's always been really understanding but I was still terrified at the time. I was struggling a lot to find the right time to tell her, but I finally told her in a school parking lot and she was really supportive and we talked about it a lot. It really helps to explain who you are and maybe talk abo......   1 reply

This might not be the best place to discuss this - it is an open forum! But you may find some better answers through some online searching. However - in my experience: Religious conservatism is really hard to deal with because it's very rigid and set in its ways and it's not open to change. I left my former religion a while back because they were......   reply