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I won't lie, I'm one of those readers who actually enjoy yandere semes.... But right now I'm in a relationship with a very obsessive guy and honestly it's not fun at all....
I mean I knew it wasn't something fun even when I was just reading about it in mangas, but having to go through it in real life sure is fucking something. Don't get me wrong, I don't get assaulted or anything that dramatic, but his constant obsession, having to deal with his extreme insecurities, getting into fights because he reads too much into shit, unfounded jealousy (he's legit mad that I stan a kpop group...) and his intensity is so fucking tiring.
I really don't think I can read contents like this no more man, it's making me get ptsd.
Also, yeah I guess I'm trauma dumping but I need to vent this out somewhere because I don't have anyone irl to talk about this.
No same lmao thankfully my ex was possessive in a peculiar way so it’s rare for me to get triggered
Comic yanderes are 10/10!! But real life yanderes suuuuck. Sorry you’re going through a tough time!! :/
hey, jealousy is one of those things that keep getting romanticized as some sort of great form of love through media, but that is really not true. Being jealous, controlling and insecure are toxic traits that can harm your partner, these are all red flags in a relationship. While I understand how hard can it be when you love someone, it is much more important to focus on your own personal safety and happiness. Never forget you deserve love, trust and respect and these kind of signs can unfortunately very often lead to violence.
I wish you well, I want you safety, and please leave if this continues and he refuse to work on his issues
I suppose you have to go through till you get to the point where you absolutely don't want none of that shit.
Fr. Jealousy and insecurity isn't romantic all..... my dad literally cheats on my Mom cuz of his insecurity and tries to mentally and emotionally drain and torture her. And the Worst thing is we can do nothing about it cuz of circumstances
haha yeah I guess, i feel like that'd be soon though. Having to be someone's emotional relief machine while also working 3 jobs ain't fun in the least. Like I could be having the worst day at work then I see my phone and the text is "are u bored of me? you're dry lately"
honestly I'm ashamed how beat up i feel in this relationship sometimes....Like I'm kinda mad I keep letting this happen to myself
yeaahh exactly, when I was a teen a jealous boyfriend seemed so hot... But then I go through it in real life and honestly it's making me want to disappear....
I'll handle this some way or another, I guess I just needed to vent. Btw thanks for the concern, you've been very kind :)
Please run for ur life as soon as you can, from what I’ve seen people like your boyfriend are more likely to become physically abusive because of their jealousy and possessiveness. I’m keeping you in my prayers and good luck
Esteban is a professional gaslighter with a doctorate degree in manipulation and invalidating other people's feelings... why uke is so hell bent on being with a psycho with equal empathy level as a pebble is beyond me
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