I won't lie, I'm one of those readers who actually enjoy yandere semes.... But right now I'm in a relationship with a very obsessive guy and honestly it's not fun at all....
I mean I knew it wasn't something fun even when I was just reading about it in mangas, but having to go through it in real life sure is fucking something. Don't get me wrong, I don't get assaulted or anything that dramatic, but his constant obsession, having to deal with his extreme insecurities, getting into fights because he reads too much into shit, unfounded jealousy (he's legit mad that I stan a kpop group...) and his intensity is so fucking tiring.
I really don't think I can read contents like this no more man, it's making me get ptsd.
Also, yeah I guess I'm trauma dumping but I need to vent this out somewhere because I don't have anyone irl to talk about this.
No same lmao thankfully my ex was possessive in a peculiar way so it’s rare for me to get triggered
Comic yanderes are 10/10!! But real life yanderes suuuuck. Sorry you’re going through a tough time!! :/
hey, jealousy is one of those things that keep getting romanticized as some sort of great form of love through media, but that is really not true. Being jealous, controlling and insecure are toxic traits that can harm your partner, these are all red flags in a relationship. While I understand how hard can it be when you love someone, it is much more important to focus on your own personal safety and happiness. Never forget you deserve love, trust and respect and these kind of signs can unfortunately very often lead to violence.
I wish you well, I want you safety, and please leave if this continues and he refuse to work on his issues
I suppose you have to go through till you get to the point where you absolutely don't want none of that shit.
Fr. Jealousy and insecurity isn't romantic all..... my dad literally cheats on my Mom cuz of his insecurity and tries to mentally and emotionally drain and torture her. And the Worst thing is we can do nothing about it cuz of circumstances
haha yeah I guess, i feel like that'd be soon though. Having to be someone's emotional relief machine while also working 3 jobs ain't fun in the least. Like I could be having the worst day at work then I see my phone and the text is "are u bored of me? you're dry lately"
honestly I'm ashamed how beat up i feel in this relationship sometimes....Like I'm kinda mad I keep letting this happen to myself
yeaahh exactly, when I was a teen a jealous boyfriend seemed so hot... But then I go through it in real life and honestly it's making me want to disappear....
I'll handle this some way or another, I guess I just needed to vent. Btw thanks for the concern, you've been very kind :)
Please run for ur life as soon as you can, from what I’ve seen people like your boyfriend are more likely to become physically abusive because of their jealousy and possessiveness. I’m keeping you in my prayers and good luck
wow no fucking was uke is already falling for seme lmaooooo
Already? It's been 45 chapters.
and 65% of those chapters are flashbacks, your point? Legit not much has happened in the real timeline
that las chapter with sovieshu crying is so gross, i don't feel sorry for him at all... idk if it's the art style or the lack of accountability but wow restoring to a tantrum after just a single taste of consequence is disgusting at least be a man about it ugh
Seme is somewhat abusive but it's not addressed and I think that's a good thing because otherwise this could get DARK lmao
He's literally not, Hanada is never shown to not be okay with what they do, he wants to be treated like that bc it's his kink I think that's very explicitly said but reading comprehension is not a virtue everyone has lmaoo
I think it should also be a bit clearer tho, I love this manga sm but maybe a safe word would be useful and what's the use in you being condescending?? Like that was unnecessary
There's a lot of rules when it comes to s&m, and I feel like a lot of manga just completely ignore that. I've rarely seen actual good representation
Do you feel good about yourself, mocking ppl for no reason like that? Idk who hurt u man but it wasn't me lmao, get help, get healed. Until then, stay in your lane.
Fr it was totally unnecessary, just being rude for no reason
Yeah, man. Thanks for calling them out, you're one of the good ones
Why is Shin being a fucking asshole? What's his problem, things are working out for him and now he's mad his boyfriend isn't a gang member? Fuck off, HE'S the one who said he hated gang members since the beginning. Even if you feel betrayed, just hear the fucking guy out..
Some authors can't create a natural plot for their lives, ugh
Oh wow, the illiteracy here is truly astounding. How can anyone be this dense? Shin isn’t mad because Jake isn’t a gang member; he’s pissed because Jake lied to him and built their entire relationship on deception! Why are we blaming Shin when Jake has been the one manipulating and controlling him from the start? And now you expect Shin to just sit there and hear him out That’s an unbelievably absurd take. If in the last chapter, Jake outright invalidated Shin’s feelings and gaslit him the entire time, It takes a special kind of lack of understanding to turn a guy’s justified anger over being manipulated into him being the “bad guy”. Honestly, how have you made it this far in the story and still managed to miss the entire point. Sorry to break it to you, but this isn’t the author’s fault for your inability to follow the plot; it’s your terrible reading comprehension. Lmfaoo
You're right .
This was soo satisfying to read!
no. It's bad character writing. This trick has been used over and over and over and over again in so many movies and mainstream media so it's heavily normalised, but it's bad writing.
Shin has the right to be mad, and he rightfully is, but the fact that he's hearing what he's been WANTING to hear since the start but then getting mad over it IS bad writing. It's inconsistent and illogical.
But shin's anger could be written in a more nuanced and smarter way than how he came off in that last chapter. Or at least he could have asked jake for an explanation because he LITERALLY WASTED ENTIRE CHAPTERS BEGGING/ FORCING JAKE TO GIVE HIM AN EXPLANATION????? And when Jake is finally going to come clean he's all like 'no, fuck that I don't wanna hear shit'.
I'm sorry if you have low IQ, I can't fix that for you. Bad writing like this will continue to get normalized a d praised and I'm not actually as against it as you think I am. So many people legit just think whatever the media is telling them to, like you're fucking retarded or something.
Maybe for 1 time in your life actually think for yourself instead of glorifying any type of bullshit you see on the net. Anyway, thanks for being rude for no reason even though I was coming for the bad writing and not you, made me realize some people really are pathetic lmao
Wow, to be this loud and this wrong. How old are you even. The level of illiteracy and mental retardation is astounding, what early heavy porn consumption does to a child
Huh? When did porn enter the conversation lmaoo, just admit you're a porn addict with a warrant and move on lol. Don project your shit to me dude
No really, that's bitch material right there. Ugh, I understand some people irl is really like that but I wasn't expecting that level of fucking worthless bitch on a supposedly wholesome chinese manhua....
all that world building and plot just for a torture fetish manga? Ugh... Why do extreme porn creators actually have the ability to make an interesting plot when actual authors cannot make a good plot if their mother's lives are on the line....
"For what, exactly?"
You should have asked yourself that question 190 chapters ago bruh
Translator... I'm not trying to be rude but uhh don't you wanna drop this? I really don't even care about the rape it's more like this is a brain-rot-torture-porn-meme? And I understand it could be funny the first 20 ch or so, but how long you wanna keep this up? lmao
I mean, the story is repetitive and boring and trying too hard to be funny... Don't get me wrong, do what you like with your life, I'm genuinely happy for you either way but I just can't imagine the brain rot you might get from translating 100+ chapters of gangrape-torture-porn-meme (this is legit not a sentence that should come together)....
This is the official tl
Esteban is a professional gaslighter with a doctorate degree in manipulation and invalidating other people's feelings... why uke is so hell bent on being with a psycho with equal empathy level as a pebble is beyond me
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