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While I'm still mad at Hyunwoo I don't think Jun and Subin's current relationship is healthy. Jun makes Subin feel small. Not always intentionally but because he still sees Subin as a child. Subin also hasn't had to grow as a person because Jun's dismissal of Subin's feelings creates this nasty cycle of acting up and ignoring it. Even in the moment when Jun knows Subin should be hurt he's conditioned to expect a tantrum and rather than reassuring his partner, Jun immediately dismisses the pain of the situation. Subin should have communicated more clearly why the situation hurts and I'm hoping he will in the next chapter.