VankerSabra

i agree, but unconditional love is not a myth it exists well i have an ex and we been together for 5yrs and she cheated and i forgive her and she cheated and cheated again yet i still forgive her, becoz i cannot change who i love dang i can say that i been lose my self respect that time, but i never really regret what i did coz its my decision and choice to go back to her i just really lover her even tho she don’t love me the same i still choose to stay i don’t even know if that was unconditional love or i was just really dumb hahahaha, we all have different opinions about love and like kiki she choose to believe what’s best for her kiki said if that kao is the past or she really change kao will the one to prove that while she knows she hurt kiki she still choose to try and change she admit her mistake and shamelessness but what she did with people is still wrong using people just for her own good is never right, but really even if it’s fiction people do change it may be good or bad way them themselves will know (well i agree what u said though it was really a good speech) (=・ω・=)

It simply means cheating is not your limit. (It is for most people thought) It doesn't mean It can't be something else. Unconditional means "no limits or conditions". And everything hás a limit or a condition. Imagine the worst mankind hás to offer throughout the entire history. Imagine the absolutely most horrible thing a human being can do to another. Now imagine it happening on your relationship against you. Would you still love her? Imagine this happening everyday, everytime without rest, because unconditional also means without limits on frequency. Would you still love her? Imagine this going on for years... I respect your opinion but I believe no love can sustain the absolutely worst all the time for an unlimited period. This only means you haven't found your limit yet. That doesn't mean your love is worthless. Only it's not 100% bulletproof like everyone else's. And my personal opinion here? Reading your text you seem to me like a grounded, smart, polite and respectful person. And I think you deserve better. You deserve to be in a relationship where you are respected. People who cheat don't respect their partners. You deserve to be in a relationship where your love and you as a person are more valued than a fleeting carnal desire. But in the end the choice is yours. Just remember: Emotions and feelings can and will change with time and repeated behaviours.

well thank you for that ur so kind, only a few people remain kind in this kind of world don’t ya think, unconditional means no limits and conditions right i totally agree, i stayed with her knowing she will repeat the same mistake but i choose to believe that she will change for me i really thought she will but she didn’t that’s the reality and i accept that, but i still stayed for 5yrs knowing she was toxic as hell but no regrets i never ever regret what i did coz i think i’m a better person now and learn a lot, i was thankful for her too even though she did hurt me she still love me, what happened to me then was never a trauma it was a lesson tho it hurts like hell getting cheated on, people’s feelings are really fleeting but i don’t mean everyone there’s some people like that, and she was like that no matter how much she loves u in the start and cared for in the beginning their feelings can change overnight, it taught me a lot of lesson i never regret giving her chances coz that’s just how much i hoped and loved her, but dw we’re not together anymore i’m single and broke up w her i’m steadily while enjoying my single life, thanks to u too i let off some steams talking to u was nice and ur a kind person too, i agree with u and u learn a lot from uヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~