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Chanwoo kinda put himself in that position. All parties had a hand in it

Why would you blame someone for putting themselves into a certain situation and not the actual problem itself?

Can you not see how unhealthy Chanwoo behavior is and how his behavior can lead to damaging someone else

The only thing that Chanwoo did that was damaging to MD was rejecting him though????

right cause ignoring and totally crashing your feelings, showing off your new sex partner is totally fine and healthy. okay troll ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Funny you’re saying that because Chanwoo’s relationships are never healthy. That includes the one with MD too. If you asked someone out and they introduced you to their new partner, it gives you absolutely no authority to act upon feelings of jealousy even if it was a dick move on Chanwoo’s part.

in a way he had a balanced relationship with MD for a character has fucked up that love pain has Chanwoo, until the whole feelings thing that Chan has to be a fucking ass about it only to rub it more later while loving MD the whole time!
say what you want, Chanwhoo choose to stay there for a reason and choose only to say the word stop only after getting jealous to MD kissing someone else. I will be happy if MD would get someone less fuck up has Chanwoo is, but since MD won't change his feelings like he should and move on from him, that's fine too ╮(￣▽￣)╭

MD and Chanwoo never had a balanced relationship. They were only sex friends. You say that Chanwoo is an ass for rejecting MD but also ignore the fact that MD nearly strangled Chanwoo to death (even for a play, his life was at stake), sexually coerced Chanwoo into sucking a stranger’s dick for a play, and acted out of line due to jealousy. So I will agree with you to say that I also do not wish to see MD and Chanwoo being together.

Because it's still something he allowed until he finally said no. （￣へ￣）
He did it because he didn't want to lose MD, but it was still his choice. Don't take what I said as giving MD a pass, just that everyone has a hand

MD didn't want to strangle him that hard. Chan did. It got to the point that MD stopped contacting him because he was worried about Chanwoo going too far in plays (he wanted him to tell him to stop so he said stop himself)

Yeah Chanwoo could have said no, but MD also could have not sexually coerced Chanwoo into a bdsm play with his former sub in order to make him feel jealous. He could have also chosen not to let personal emotions mix in with a bdsm play and nearly strangle Chanwoo. Everyone involved is guilty, but some are less guilty than others.

Um.... if you reread the chapter, It’s shown that MD almost lost control of himself and nearly asphyxiated Chanwoo...which is not safe bdsm at all.

their play is about trying things beyond their limits that's why safe word EXIST! but since Chan is the worse sub ever, he won't use the word cause most of the chance he didn't want to be hated by him which again dumb. it is the sub responsibility to use the safe word not MD guessing when to stop! again if he can't use that word MD should have get rid of him, like MD check which I don't really care he was strangled, Chan had the responsibility to use the safe word!
they were sex friend UNTIL MD told him his feelings and wanted to be more than just sex partner with him! at this point, Chan should have said he does not feel the same instead of calling him and not insult him and bring his sex partner to him! that is Chan fault no matter how much you try to say he is a baby and a victim and bs like that.
again if Chan didn't want to stay and have MD, he won't have agreed to this play of threesome.

Yes, Chanwoo did have the responsibility of saying the safe word, but MD also has the equal responsibility of stopping/not doing a play when he realized that Chanwoo does not say the safe word, which MD did realize. Also, Chanwoo agreed to a bdsm play, not being involved in a threesome. That’s why he was so surprised when MD asked him to suck another dude’s dick. In any case, your perception of bdsm is completely unsafe. Safe and healthy bdsm is consent from both sides prior, during, and after the play. It is unsafe for the dom to do whatever he likes during a play with no prior run down and just expect for the sub to say the safe word (especially in the case of MD knowing that Chanwoo is adamant on refusing to say the safe word). You’re saying that Chanwoo should’ve just said no, which is the common mentality of victim blamers. Although it may be extreme, that’s comparable to saying that a rape victim was at fault for not saying no/resisting.

you say Chan didn't agree to be involved in a threesome, is that right? he didn't agree? okay since I'm too tired to use words, read this again:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bj_alex/uu/ibx_chapter-89/pg-47/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bj_alex/uu/ibx_chapter-89/pg-54/
I actually didn't felt bad for MD telling him to suck it, Chan didn't use the safe word and didn't seem to mind that that much like the kiss MD did. again if he really hated it that much, he would have used the safe word. and Chan, for the most part, have no problem having sex with random guys only base on looks so kissing and sucking someone he was going to have sex with was mostly nothing and his reactions didn't seem like he hated it that much and even if he did, it was his fault for being too stubborn to admit it.
from what I read people that know much about it said it does not have to be "play with no prior run down" it is something spontaneous to explores your limits of pain, again for this the safe word EXIST!
Chan is not a victim if he can 1. break out of man he does not want to be with
2. can make his own choices, and he clearly can! and even show he does not obey MD at first at all.
3. Chan mostly did what he wants with MD from the very start.
4. a victim will never given the choice to leave like we see here: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/bj_alex/uu/ibx_chapter-89/pg-57/

Ffs, he hated the threesome so much that he used the safe word, which he’d rather die than use. Do you not understand that? He hated the threesome so much that he broke down crying. It seems to me that you’re a minor with no knowledge nor experience with safe bdsm and therefore I will stop the conversation at this point. I also have no interest in talking with victim blamers and abuse excusera.

no he hated the kiss more than the threesome, if he hated their play he would have left or use the safe word. and you actually seem a minor that can't read, you should not read those kinds of stories if you not mature enough that it is both their fault!

Your analyzation skills are extraordinarily amiss, I will admit that I am impressed that you have the courage to call me a “minor that can’t read” when you can barely form coherent sentences without grammar mistakes.