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Stars surround my entire head lol

The problem here was that DG immediately became aggressive and didn't give Jiwon much space to figure out what to say and how to say it.
Jiwon kindly asked him how he is and what he has been doing lately.DG immediately responded that since there is nothing between them anymore Jiwon automatically shouldn't care.
Now Jiwon is not a superhuman.Everyone would feel attracted and reluctant to open up and talk honestly after such rude stance DG has towards him.
DG was being selfish and aggressive.It seems like he didn't really want to conversation but only a straight up confession.
That's not how things work.
He didn't allow Jiwon to approach him therefore Jiwon said the first thing it came to his mind.

A voice of reason.

Ok well this is really opinionated but on one hand it’s true that Alex was being polite but come on. DG the gullible one know nth about Alex’s situation, he wanted a relationship but he completely messed that up so when both of them completely cut ties after the last sex, DG no longer has to care or give Alex time to talk. Yes although they were never in a relationship, it was the same as one, their sex partner relationship resulted in DG being hurt, tho it may have been mostly because of himself, but the thing is that relationship ended just like any, with DG being hurt. So personally he has the right to cut Alex off right the start and does not have to be nice to him. It’s like an ex that srsly hurt you ask you how your day was. Sure maybe Alex doesn’t realise what he ‘did’ to hurt DG but fact remains DG was hurt and hence it gives DG the right to completely cut Alex off. However, I do see your point and see where you are coming from.

DG’s reaction is to be expected. He literally said he gets hurt every time he gets with Jiwon so he’s on the defense trying to protect himself. These are intense emotions on display and it’s a bit much to call DG selfish but that’s just my opinion. This is a messy, emotional situation and it will take time to resolve.

So.. Are we just gonna forget that jiwon was treating dg like a piece of shit up until recently? He had it coming. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Exactly. It’s as if Alex’s general behaviour towards DG is somehow of no consequence and has nothing to do with DG’s current behaviour. When it has EVERYTHING to do with how DG is reacting now.

Why not?Since everyone seems to forget that DG agreed to every condition Jiwon set for their sexual relationship.Also everyone forgets that DG was never honest with Jiwon even though he had multiple chances to.And most importantly DG was the one that toletated Jiwon's behavior and didn't express any discomfort in a way that Jiwon could actually understand it.
Nobody forced DG to stay but he did.He got hurt himself.

Don’t make me laugh. Since when is a relationship ever one-sided? You’re expecting DG to do ALL the damn work. That’s why them being in a relationship now will never work. Alex has to step it up too.

They were never in a relationship they were just sex partners.DG was the only one who wanted more and his whatever feelings and desires were indeed one sided.
DG has never done anything about Jiwon.

You just said that they were in a sexual relationship. What are you talking about now?

So if they were never in a relationship like you said, then DG had no reason to ask Jiwon about anything. Not like Jiwon even gave a fuck about him before this. DG couldn’t even know more about Jiwon without the guy bristling like a damn porcupine. Jiwon’s an adult man, not a baby to be coddled.

DG doesn’t owe Jiwon anything, and vice-versa.