Miiru's Topics (253)

Can y'all stop it with using the term pedophile EVERY SINGLE TIME that someone older likes someone of underage?! Bruhhh pedophile is described as a sexual (and I mean in terms of harassment) urge for under aged kids and is sometimes oppressive. Loving someone underage IS NOT A PEDOPHILIC ACT because love is something you cannot avoid. It isn't a pedophilic act as long as it doesn't cross the boundary. Describe people correctlyyyyy

She is a pedophile - he's 14 and she is a working adult that is nasty. She is considering dating him that is crossing the boundaries! If they don't have sex? THATS GROOMING also illegal gtfo out of here with that kind of thinking and stay away from schools.

Bruh crossing the boundary in this situation means HAVING A SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. Geez this is why some people who ACTUALLY knows how to love and is included in this type of genre of romance chooses not to come out, it's because of this kind of narrow thinking. What is ACTUALLY so wrong with this kind of love? Sure they might date but are they doing anything wrong? If you're justifying WRONG in terms if their age when they're CLEARLY not doing anything wrong, this type of unreasonable thinking, who do you think THINKS and acts more disgustingly between you and those people who are only in love (WHO ARE CLEARLY IN JUST SOME INNOCENT RELATIONSHIP). And who are you to tell me to stay away from schools? Even if I do and you cobtinue to study, THEN GROW UP. And if you're already a grown up and still manages to throw up this way of thinking, shame on you. At least I know how to use my brain properly, how about you? Observe the situation properly before dropping some narrow minded judgement. And even if you're correct, cussing isn't an option. Well, it's because you may have not experienced this type of love or MAYBE you haven't fallen in love truly before. THAT'S why you don't understand.

This is disgusting to even read. Do you go around befriending children? Romantic feelings for a child is wrong! Dating a child is wrong there is nothing innocent about it. At this age gap they shouldn't even be FRIENDS. That adult has a childish mind and can't grasp mature conversation- they relate to well to children and don't understand that they are the ADULT. Its called peterpan syndrome. Please for the love of god I really hope you not older than 21 and you're just a dumb kid reading smut cuz if you're not YOU SHOULD BE IN JAIL. This love is not pure an adult woman should not rely on a kid thats in middle school. He is going through puberty he can't drive what reliance can he offer you at this point? If you wine about you very adult problems to a 14 year old THATS WRONG. Just how is she relying on him for emotional support wtf thats to complicated for him to grasp. Are you in a realtionship with a child???? Have you traumatized a child with your bullshit feelings? You sound like an oniision supporter

dude ikr like who tf hangs out with little kids
like even if you don’t do anything that’s creepy as fuck

THANK YOU!

Bruh let me just point out that the success of a relationship depends on the extent to which partners share similar values, beliefs and goals about their relationship, support each other in achieving personal goals, foster relationship commitment, trust and resolve problems in constructive ways. These factors have little do with age.

So the reality is, while an age gap may bring about some challenges for couples, so long as couples work at their relationship, age should be no barrier.

In this case, calling them disgusting, especially the older one is just plain rude. You may have not observed it yet but she doesn't seem like someone whose loose or at least loose enough to lose herself to to sexual urges. Why don't y'all wait and see. There are some kids who are WAY smarter than some adults. As I've said before, the older one should be in charge here in order for the relationship to be correctly successful. Just think of how you fall in love, there isn't a reason, there might be but it's hard to stop it. The important thing is you, as the older one, should take charge of a correct flow in your relationship. Until then, why don't y'all stop calling these people disgusting?

Thus is fiction, this is why I am trying to root for them even though society sees this as a crime in real life. I can say the same thing if I know for sure that my friend (the older one) is in a relationship, but ONLY through thorough conversation and if he/she us someone I know very well and has a broad mindset. If not, then vice versa, but there isn't a need to call them disgusting. Until then, I can only watch out for them.

Agreed! I think you guys are being very narrow minded and extremely rude. In this story, the woman is very pure. 100% how this story will go is they will "date" very purely or even separate themselves because they know they need to wait until he is older. There are some stories where the adult even completely separates herself from the kid thinking their feelings will fade away, but when they meet years later their feelings still remain. These type of stories are meant to show pure love overcoming high obstacles, not to show smutty scenes or inappropriate actions. There are many married couples that are 10 or more years apart in age, though of course they are adults. Stories like this one show the troubles of couples like those, but the extra struggles of meeting at the wrong time in their lives.

Thank you for the clarification ghorlll!!!!! Simple yet vivid explanation I mean I'm not generalizing but I just hope that y'all aren't one of those people who are so discriminating against normal or commoners who have a romance like this but completely ignorant or accepting when it comes to famous people

So at no age gap do you guys think - this is way to young? Again the kid is 14 no matter how smart he is his brain isn't fully matured his hormones have just started. Do you guys not remember being 14? You think your body weird your biggest problem is how to get the latest iPhone. Kids really have no bigger purpose in life. The idea of romanticizing a 14 year old to be this great understanding boyfriend to a girl prob in her mid 20s is not in the least bit close to reality. It is grooming. Whether its sexual or not it could even just be FRIENDSHIP and that is just wrong. You are supposed to be fully developed as a person don't go bothering kids. Stop romanticizing mature kids like they are adults -they arent- they can not fully grasp situation like adults can hence then term minor.

Bruhh stop pushing this situation to this mangaaaa. She already explained what it is we're afterrr. It's not that we're condoning this act. Tho there's nothing wrong with it, THE ADULT SHOULD BE IN CHARGE. It is up to them whether to stop until the younger grows up, stop completely because of the prying eyes of the society or just go on but in a healthy flow cuz 14 is actually a good enough stage to be aware of a correct love. This is fiction and like what lilylord said, it doesn't mean to show the sexual activities that SHOULD be involved when dating, rather the WAY of thinking that the couple should hold in order to maintain a healthy flow of relationship. After all this is better than the younger one to wake up in the relationship world through sexually active or addicted way. Some 14 year olds nowadays or maybe even younger are SO sexually active that they're even posting and boasting about it online. Having an adult lover may or may not be for the better but it reaaally depends on how healthy your mindset works. Not everyone dating is sexually active, tho it is normal to take care of your partner's sexual needs, it is also a healthy move to discipline them into waiting. And if they can't , then end it. And like I said you're pov isn't all that wrong, we all have our beliefs and values but the way that you explained and claimed it was reaally rude and not to mention unconsciously discriminating..

...what the fuck are you going on about.
a 24 year old is not allowed to date or lead on a 14 year old. Period. Regardless of what they’re doing in that relationship. It’s both legally and socially unacceptable. the fact that you believe otherwise is so extremely disturbing. If you genuinely believe it’s ok for a child to be in a relationship with a 24 year old, please get some help.

So? Is that all that's ever wrong in that type of relationship? Because it's "socially unacceptable", "wrong for a 24 years old to be dating a 14 years old"? Let's just clarify that I am not JUST talking about the couple in this manga but I am generalizing couples with this type of relationship. This type of reasoning is just disgustingly discriminating. Didn't you read my explanation thoroughly? And AGAIN just trying to point out my views on this type of relationship because AGAIN the way that the two of you claimed this as a pedophilic act isn't fine but it IS understandable, we were just trying to open up some new pov's for y'all. No need to get so offensive. And another way that you claimed this act as "disgusting" and "wrong" (AGAIN NOT JUST IN THIS COUPLE BUT I AM GENERALIZING) just because it is socially unacceptable like you said, are they really the ones who are disgusting here?
I am ending it here, AGAIN, I am not saying that your pov isn't correct but please try to tone your level of disgust towards others especially if you don't know them or you don't know them all that well at all and not just that person, you should learn to observe how their relationship is going. Who knows, maybe their relationship goes way smoothly than those who have a "normal" relationship. Maybe then you'll learn from these "disgustingly creepy" people

Sorry, but if you think a relationship between a 14 and 24 year old is ok, I don’t care about what you have to say at all.

Well I do, i'm not an ignorant fool like you, all I was trying to say is, I don't expect to change your views in this case but at least try to be more understanding, obsereve more and don't just go around dropping a judgemental accusation especially when you're cussing, which is what you did and shouldn't do.
And this last sentence you gave, it seems like you're the most narrow minded person here.

yea sure you’re not an ‘ignorant fool’ you’re just a pedo LMAOOOO

Ghorl I am only 17 years old. It has nothing to do with age. If you understand their situation enough and not just focus on the societal impression of them, maybe it will help to broaden your mindset and not just ignoring the fact that you're unconsciously discriminating towards them.
Also, it can't be helped that you don't care about what others say, it seems that you're too narrow minded to even understand what they're trying to say and just want to keep on focusing on your own selfish and rude belief. At least the meer isn't as rude as you are when you claimed these people disgusting (even though some of the aren't even doing anything wrong, excluding the societal impression of them) ← this claim itself is rude and from my pov, intentionally discriminating.
I hope you don't unconsciously hurt someone with your mindset in the future. Try to understand them first and just be there to guide them.

do you or do you not believe a relationship between a 14 year old child and 24 year old adult is ok. if your answer is that you believe it is ok, I will definitely discriminate and judge you. Because that’s fucked up and that ideology should be addressed + re-evaluated. not sorry. will never be sorry. will also never defend a pedophile. (p.s. you being 17 doesn’t change anything.... a 14 year old is still off limits ! ) and yes, 100% adults who date children are most absolutely disgusting. that’s absolutely fucking vile. how someone could ever disagree with that, I’m shocked. don’t validate or defend minor attracted persons. also recommend not to tell anyone your opinion on this topic bc damn they’ll think you’re gross for sure

Okay, this is becoming a really long convo. What I just wanted to say is, it is illegal to BANG an underage, not date them. What I tried to point out is that hey, at least I tried to broaden my knowledge a bit and not just go around calling people disgusting when sooo far, they've done nothing but just consider each other. It doesn't erase the fact that it makes them seem like a desperate creep from others's pov.

omg what is not clicking with you???? you cannot date someone who is 14!!! if you’re 24!! let this be an educational moment for you. you are still a pedophile if you date a child, regardless of whether you rape them or not. I’m only reinforcing this over and over because I’m genuinely concerned about your beliefs. It’s really dangerous to believe that if you don’t rape the child, then the relationship is ok. (And I’m saying rape not sex bc a child can’t consent) Under no circumstance should this sort of a relationship even be considered. please seriously try and understand this.

You CANNOT DATE A 14 YEAR OLD???? Honest to god what is wrong with you? I really hope that mind changes before you get in to some serious trouble and go to jail as an adult. Really? How old was you ex boyfriend? Cuz now i am CONCERNED. If you are 18plus you CAN NOT even be FRIENDS with 15negative i dont care if the person is asexual there is something wrong with them. It could be the purest relationship in the world idgaf unless you are babysitting them dont go near them cuz at the end of the day PARENTS get last say and boy you are dead wrong if you think they are on your side.

Bro stfu. Both sides are wrong. I get where you all are coming from but this is annoying to even read. It is wrong to date a 14 year old cuz it is an act of an actual pedophile what more if they bang, the other is wrong in this side. The other is that while they are correct with the whole thing being wrong, you decide to gang up on one even tho they already admit that they are wrong too and on top of that, you were rude to them and the way as to how you said that those people are disgusting and the other one even added the word "fucking" in front of the pedo. Let me remind you, you are not clean as well. How you just said it makes you seem like you are the most correct person on top of the world

Go off sis!!!! I can not believe this person is real. Really want to report them!

It is NOT discrimination because it is 100% illegal and disgusting. Do you believe people should date pigs to? Cuz if you don't based on your logic you're discriminating. Dating a pig without the intent of having sex with is okay and pure! That's what you fucking sound like. Do us all a favor and stay away from kids and go pay attention to some pigs instead cuz you belong in a den you pedo.

OH MY GOD HAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAH WOWZAAAA.

If you're concerned about the laws about dating underaged and stuff like that vro, there is not such thing you freakin editor of the year HAHAHAHAHAHA. (even if there is, who you to act all high and mighty vro) There is no such law, however, they should be aware of statutory rape law. This is just your own opinion with this kind of relationship HAHAHAHHAHA. illEgAl, diSguStang HAHAHAHAHAHA VROOO YOU. ARE. NOT. CLEAN. YOURSELFDDDTTTT. I am not protecting what preciousuke said because we have dufferent views but he/she cleeeaaarly just wanted to make her/his side clear. She/ he even admitted that there's actually nothing wrong with your own pov! Madafaka. Owmgggg let's reply again 2 days later!! Let's bring him/her down HAHAHHHA STOOPID.

And who are you to call him/her that she belongs to a den? Vro not even one's close friends OR even their family MUCH LESS strangers are allowed to call anyone like that! Acting like you're so clean, calling these people disgusting. YOU. ARE. NOT. CLEAN VRO.

And do you even know what effing GENERALIZING means???? Look it up before spouting your thoughts from that disgusting mouth of yours. YOU. ARE. NOT. CLEAN VRO.

He/she wasn't just talking about this particular couple but the WHOOOOOOOOLE other couples like this, why do you keep on focusing on a 14 years old and a 24 years old or something? YOU. ARE. NOT CLEAN VRO.

Who are you to call ALL of them disgusting? You clean vro? Are you a God? A saint? A deity? Wuuut???? Are you??? YOU. ARE. NOT. CLEAN.

and who are you to call hin/her a pedo? Do you even know him/her? Do youuuuu~??? Maderfaking know it all.

You know what, you are just one of those sad people generalizing people like this. Leaning on the sOciAlLy unaccepted act just because they don't understand and haven't experienced such romance. And don't you DARE say that "I wiLl nEveR Do sOmetHing so diSgustIng", YOU ARE NOT A GOD OR A SAINT A DEITY NOOOO. Even you don't know or realize what you might do at times. Acting all high and mighty, you think you're all that? Vro, the way you act versus how precious and lily something calmly explained their side while being thoughtful of your side as well, if he/she belongs in a den, then you are diiiiiirt.

Pffffff can't believe they took their time explaining their side to you and shinsobb as well. Trying to reason with you guys is a waste of time. Self centered scums. Just because you haven't known this feelings, calling around and feneralizibg these people as disgusting. Freaking scum. You like belittling others it seems. Stoopid. Ciao, nvm your reply, not that surprised that no one replies to you anymore here

I agree. You are generalizing these people, It's sad to know that they have to put their love aside just because people don't want to see them together and because people are ignorant. It's sickening to see that people don't want to see them happy without knowing anything about them. It's such a baseless accusation, not to mention, it's just so wrong to accuse people like that, not just precious or lily or anyone but the people of this topic as well.

Well, we can't help it. That's what the mAjorItY thinks. And because it's a crime from the pov of many, THEN THAAAT MEANS THAT THEY'RE ALL CRIMINALSSS~!! ＼(◎o◎)／ ALL OF THEM ARE DISGUSTING CREEPS. HAHHAHAHAHA what a narrow pov~~ That's why they call them "cradle robbers" HAHAHAH SEE? THEY EVEN HAVE THEIR OWN NICKNAMEEE WOOHH!!!

Yeah. People don't realize it but most of the time, either they're unconsciously discriminating or they're just plainly discriminating out of ignorance or arrogance.

And dude, just because your argument sounds smart doesn't mean what you're saying is credible or holds the truth. Be careful with what your saying (ب_ب)

Truth!! Yesssss

Louderrrr. Yes just leave him alone, from my pov, it seems like he's never list an argument. That's why he couldn't let go of lily and precious thaaat easilyyy~~ he needs to drag them downnnn. People like this will just waste your time if you try to explain yourself to them. No matter howw haarddd or thorough you try ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

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Im not going to respect someone who thinks this is okay. Im not a deity so I don't have to be respectful I am a human. I replied 2 days later cuz I have a life and this getting endless. Pedophiles are "fucking" disgusting. And anyone who agrees with it are also "fucking" disgusting. Sucks to suck

Bro you don't have to be a deity to be respectful bro. I'm just saying. But they have a point and tbh, kare just roasted you on that one, he/ she's good dang. You just got butt hurt.

You have to admit, you were disrespectful and you may have not noticed it but you were also unconsciously/unintentionally sooo discriminating, not just with these "pedophiles" but with lily, precious, everyone against you as a matter of fact that you even accused them of pedophiles even tho they might not be and put one of them in their place which is the den. I am taking kare's side on this one, bro, you are a dirt.

Pedophiles are their nickname as well but bro, people are so ignorant and arrogant that they normalized pedophiles as criminals. They are not taking away anything. You don't seem to understand that you are generalizing these people, so imma just say it, you are saying that "all" of them are criminals with the way you speak about them. And that makes you 3x more disgusting than them and the people who are just trying to cover for those people who are just plainly in love and needs to hold back.(and bro stop focusing on the 14 year old and 24 year old, all of us are ralking about anyone, younger or older) PERIODT.

And let me mention what kare said as well. YOU. ARE. NOT. CLEAN. VRO. That's why you are not in position to be calling lily, precious, or those pedophiles ugly terms. If that so called law of yours didn't exist you editor of the year, would you still have anything against them? Dating isn't what's illegal bro, sexual intercourse with underage is what's seriously wrong. That's why your law is non-existent tho like what kare said, there is the statutory rape law

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Yo just leave him alone, high prided people like him are just so arrogant and narrow minded that they choose to shame people whose argument actually makes sense even though they are being shameless themselves.

Is that all you have to show? Can't even say anything? Butt hurt much? HAHAHAHAHHA your lyin' ass and high prided arguments have soo many holes vro. If you gonna argue, be observant at least

It is illegal to date. Its called grooming. I just wanted to let you know what I see every time you say something.

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Butt hurttttt (づ￣ °￣)づ

"Grooming is about making a child think that sex with the offender is normal or that they have no choice. Offenders do this by building a relationship and emotional connection with the child. They could try to convince the young person that they are in a loving relationship as boyfriend or girlfriend."

Bro, if you view EVERYONE like this, then you really are narrow minded. We all have different intentions, not everyone is like this. This just shows that you really are generalizing, viewing eveeryone like this. You really are a dirt like they said. Now now, don't get pissed okay? You were even more disrespectful towards the others. Butt hurt.

Omggg I love this comment so much (≧∀≦)
Fiireeeeee!!!

So like... I agree that is a little bit awkward with the age gap and stuff but it think it's a very good trait of the FL that she's actually trying to be on the same level as him. Like she's not brushing off his opinions or his feelings as just a horny confused 14 year old she's actually taking him seriously. She honestly listening to him and trying to find a balance. Being honest with him and telling her thoughts not to "groom" into being her boyfriend or making him have hope , she's doesn't even have sexual thoughts for him so she's not a pedo. She's just treating him like a normal person who has their own thoughts and feelings. So I think she that aspect to her is very commendable. But...i would still like a time skip(2)

Meer should change his name to butthurt (≧▽≦)

How to be an ass and a liar of the century 101

Then my father is a pedo?! My mum and dad have an age gap of eight years they both fall in love when my mother was 16. They love each other but NEVER had a thing but keep in touch with their families untill they get married when my mum 20. Loving my mum all this years untill his last breath and my mum never get married again àfter my dad passed away.

Just because you think it was illegal age doesn't make everyone is criminal because they fall in love a little bit too early. If LGBT homosexual get the privileged of ' love is love is love is love' even tho they actually opposing the LAW OF NATURE and illegal in some country and bad in some religion why love in a age gap is wrong even tho they are both an opposite gender. WHAT IS WRONG is the ACTION of the PREDATORS of pedophilia and engage with sexual activity with a child.
While this story have an awkward age gap where the boy doesn't even reach his puberty yet so I don't think the woman should encourage anything at the mean time but i do accept a little how she managed that boy feeling because it is his first love gonna be careful with.

Exactly! Don't mind what those two said. Especially meer. That's why what they said that generalizing them as criminals is wrong. And because they're both narrow minded, they just can't understand the thought that NOT ALL ARE CRIMINALS. If true to their feelings, they can work it out together and others should just mind their own business instead of criticizing them as criminals when they haven't been in their shoes or just because they don't understand. Lol. Just because it's incorrect from the eyes of the society w/c is a judgemental one at that, they can go around being an asshole towards people who haven't even been doing wrong so far other than literally just considering each other and working out things together correctly. Lol. Meer is actually the one who's disgusting here. Smh

ThEy shOuldN't evEn be frIenDs... Wewwwww. Your argument is logical, true but some sentences and "facts" that you claim are so faaaaaaar. LMAOO, just because you sound smart doesn't mean what you say is true and doesn't mean you can be an asshole about it as well. Smh

Acts shown in the story can be realistic, unrealistic, romanticized etc. as long as the readers are still able to recognise the fact that it's a story and some things shown are not to be taken lightly or recreated in real life

So you can stfu and stop being an asshole with everything else and your "facts". Lmao. Rather than preciousukees and others who understands first before calling others names and such, you're way more laughable. Go and major as an asshole of the century

Honestly, Love and lust are two different things. To me, you can only be considered as a pedophile if a children's body AROUSES you (just search lolicon or shotacon on some hentai shit and compare it to this), you'll realize regardless of genre this manga right here focuses on love (I don't think we ever had a single dialogue here that comes close to sex) . It's about "I want to make you happy, get to know you and treat you like an actual person and not just some kid" compared to "I want to do what grown ups do and I'm into older women".

Plus there's a hundred other mangas out there that makes this the central conflict for gods sake. If you're not into that, if it triggers you, then read something else. for example some people don't read yaoi or yuri because they're not comfortable or interested with homosexual relationships. personally I'm not into harem so I try not to read those unless its really good.

Also I would just like to point out PLEASE DONT OVERSIMPLIFY THE TERM GROOMING and use that word like for like every couple who have an age difference, it just sounds like you just learned a new word and want to use it for everything (like simp or cringe). I swear to god grooming is highly manipulative, toxic , and sexual by prying AN INNOCENT CHILD.

It looks to me that this kid is actually the one pursuing for goodness sake, it's the girl trying to give him a chance even with friendship as she sees that he isn't a bad person. If ever you guys in this comment section who cant see that ever fall in love for REAL as in real, maybe then you'll learn to understand that love doesn't always come in black and white in a way you truly understand.

Its her heart unconsciously beating and NOT something down there throbbing.

Most likely 5...

So shes like 25 and hes 20 or???

He's 22/23 and she's 28.

Ty

No problem!

7 years

I think so

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