
how do i make yaoi friends?? im such a yaoi addict but i cant discuss it with anyone :(
ok the ones ive seen r for online friends so heres tips for irl friends:
- put a bl chara as ur wallpaper (not a weird panel tho, just a normal cute pic kind of subtle) and if someone recognizes it yall can have a convo abt it
- if ur talking abt interests w someone u can slowly go from more general interests like anime/manga and show some bl ones that u like, and maybe theyll know it too and stuff
- if u use insta add ppl to ur close friends and post random bl content and ppl might get interested
in my experience, most girls who are already into anime/manga and arent homophobic are open to/like bl, even if they arent super into it yall can still bond over ur fav bl ships n stuff
when i was in school i wondered why most stories revolved around school. now that im older i get it. honestly my school friends are still my closest friends even if i dont see them. those memories were the best. even the guy i had a crush on if he asked me out today i would say yes in a heartbeat. i also had a similar thing to the uke. i got a chronic illness after highschool and had to be bedridden.
i barely go out these days. all i really have are those memories of school. those friends i made were so genuine and we spent so much time together they were closer than family. my crush i spent years pining on even became his friend. it never became reciprocated cause i never asked him out . but i still think of him. every guy i dated after that resembled him .
even when i talk to my school friends they say how school memories and friends were the best. in college u dont really spend as much time with the same group of people and after that life gets so busy. i cry everytime i look at my school pictures. i was genuinely so happy had such amazing people and memories. i barely laugh these days but i would laugh every day of my school. hanging out with friends was what i wanted to do it was not for "networking".