Ayu's Topics (54)

I completely agree with you the people in the comments come at you if you don’t ship “k” and him together I for one don’t because the joowon has been there since they were teens and they were each others first(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Because here like 80% ship haesso with taku all people who dare say they ship him with joowon get more dislikes than likes even if they're being respectful.. its disgusting.
I took a look at the raws and i think joowon turned out to be like he is now because of the trauma he had with the mother causing him fear to be in a healthy relationship with haesoo, its kinda sad(?).. I just wanted to see the chapter translated.

I don't think you need to 'know what it's like to be in a toxic relationship' to enjoy a great story that expands on diverse human relationships between characters. I have just started recovering from an abusive relationship and I think it's great to see different aspects of love, attachment, abuse and all those conflicting feeling and maybe hope for a healthy development as an alternative to ditching the problem to immediately run in the arms of the first guy who says he's interested. I think Taku is an interesting character but could be used to mend the broken relationship with Joowon (▰˘◡˘▰)

Could be the bandwagon effect. People jump on the most hated side to justify the other as more acceptable. I stop caring — we can't change people's mind and nor could they change mine.

Indeed Joowon's not perfect and all and so is Haesoo, and that's exactly what the author is trying to capture: An odd couple with a complex love-hate relationship. Taku's intervention will either fuel their fire or extinguish their fire. Haesoo might end up with any of them, or maybe no one. We don't know. That's the essence, right? I think better not be bothered by their hates (it's their own problem to deal) and rather just enjoy how the story will go.

Pls could I have the link to the raws?

considering i call my cousin's parents aunt and uncle aka theyre related to me through one of my parents, ill pass. theres like 7 billion people in the world, why settle with someone related to you?

Maybe because they love each other? They may be related but are not sons of the same parents and its proven children of cousins dont come with health issues just because of that.

every heard the saying, "just because you can doesn't mean you should"?

And just because thats your opinion it doesnt mean it is the same as mine. I stand by hat i already said, if there's love then the rest doesnt matter.. i mean, they're just cousins for god's sake.

you mean youre marrying and having kids with your blood relative for god's sake. and your "Maybe because they love each other?" logic doesnt work on so many levels.

Well, it doesnt work for YOU. And if that was the case, hypothetically speaking, then what if we were blood relatives? Look, by that logic you're using then i can also say everyone in the world is related by blood/DNA and therefore nobody can fall in love, marry or whatever.

I just made a comment expressing my own personal opinion about the matter, i knew i world get shit as always, but can we just stop here? Im not interested in arguing about this with anyone, i just simply wanted to let my opinion out.
If you continue then ill just have to do something i dont want to.

I think it's because in some places the dynamic between cousins is much more family oriented. Like for me personally my cousins are like siblings practically so it would be really creepy. And other people i know, even if they aren't close the fact that they are related is heavily focused on. So it just all depends on where you live I think, and most of these comments are probably from places where the view is like this

For me, personally it’s a big no. As in it’s not for me. Although there are cousins I don’t know so who knows but cousins I do know, hell no. But I’m live and let live. As long as percausions are taken in heterosexual relationships (if they want to have a baby, using doner sperm or eggs) then I don’t care how closely related you are as long as there’re of age and able to consent. My only discomfort comes in with a parent child combo. That’s hard. I just feel like there’re a power dynamic that’s unavoidable and unhealthy. Also maybe bc my dad molested his daughter’s and I’ve been so incredibly damaged by that, that I’m unable to be rational. But aside from that really as long as there’s no grooming or coercion and there’s no chance of an innocent child suffering the consequences, I don’t care and don’t think any of my business. A benefit of being gay and in a close familial relationship is that they don’t have to worry about inbred babies happening by accident.

Yup. In my country also marriage between is allowed. Those ppl who dont like the idea, at least respect ppl feeling or their country proposition....(づ￣ ³￣)づ

hahaha, that's rich, so other countires allow child marriages and rape and abuse towards women, so i should respect their country proposition? please.

I cant believe you dare to compare rape and abuse to love relationships between cousins that are not hurting anyone LMAO

Haha.. what a pathetic human being... You can't differentiate the difference easily.. LMAO. ...

lmao, im calling you out on the fact that you told people to respect what their countries allow, even though its wrong. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ clearly you cant comprehend that.

if you really want to suck your cousin's dick, i wont stop you. (︶︿︶) just know that if youre able to marry your cousin without being squeamish clearly youre able to marry anyone else that's related to you. ick.

I believe the person only brought up the different countries aspect to only this specific topic and not abuse. Its not like they said people should respect everything within other countries politics even if different, you are just assuming things.

Wow, you're really stupid :o
If i wanted to suck my cousin's dick and he consented then that would not be your problem at all in the first place.
You cant admit you're wrong so now you resorted to attacking people, what a really grown up thing to do.

.... inbreeding leads to abnormalities... theres is a more than little risk of having a child with a mental or physical disorder by having a child with someone who shares your blood..thats why its seen as more than taboo in various places where it isnt a culture and/or tradition..

There is countries that allow them to be with their cousins.. which century were you born? "Even though its wrong"?? Hahaha.... poor soul..

As i said before, scientists already confirmed that between COUSINS their children dont come with problems, its up to the people to believe in that or not though.

Hey, my paternal great-grandparents were first cousins it happened a lot back then.

......no....scientists have proven that with first cousins there is always a risk of abnormalities/brain damage and/or mental illness when inbreeding and having a child..the only thing scientists have said is that its less of a risk than brother and sister. Statistically it has even been shown that those who end up having normal children can even put grand children at risk of retardation or birth defects... but..its only continued because of the cultural background. Other than that it is considered taboo in most other countries due to the risks.

i dont mean to be rude in any way, i just wanted to imput as i live in south africa and my brother is a doctor here. it happens often that people have children by first cousin and even rape cases where their brothers and fathers give them children. in the cases of first cousin there are many many problems with the children. Of course not all of them but more than you would think.

I think if you want to get with your cousin that’s up to you. Personally to me I wouldn’t cause I just feel uncomfterable with that but if you can more power to you. I do think the story mentioned that they were cousins a little TOO late but whatever.

If the reason of "incest" between cousins or not is the risk of abnormalities, mental illness, ecc of children born from it, why discuss about it upon a yaoi? I don't get that.... they are man, they CAN'T have children. (⊙…⊙ )

Actually, it is proved that they do.

if there’s a single ounce DNA that’s similar to ITS A FAT no.

care to explain why?

first of all wtf that’s disgusting and incestral second it causes birth defects

your first argument is invalid because that's your opinion and isn't based on actual logic, the second is just stupid. You know all people are related by DNA right?

I agree, cousins are family we shouldn't set our eyes on our own blood

Actually in my country or religion, you can marry your cousin who are NOT your first cousins. You can marry your second cousins or more distant ones. But you can't marry any cousin from your mother's side. So when people say, cousins who are married, they are actually very distant relatives so it doesn't even matter.

okay boomer you wanna stick yourself into your cousin by all means go ahead you weird ass nasty

Wew did i say i was talking about myself? I just made the comment because in my country almost everyone doesnt make such a deal about it like americans and what not.
Also if you were gonna stop replying then why did you start it again after months? Lmao

I mean I could care less it's their life their choice I agree with you if they love each other so what it has nothing to do with us anyway

you are creepier with that kind of thinking

K, I'm muting this

As long as its healthy and queerplatonic, Im with you

This comment is absolutely the best, I agree with you completely