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It really is!! Today's my girlfriend's and I's 1 year and 8 month anniversary :))

It really is!! Today's my girlfriend's and I's 10 years anniversary :))

Sana mamatay nalang ko

Ohh so cute !!

I can't agree more

I wouldn't say it's dubcon per se... During the first time, it's really hard to stop in such situations (cuz of lack of control that you gain when you experience sex more). Though, in any case, Richard already looks like his whole life ended, so next chap is gonna be good

I don’t know what dubcon means
And please don’t say things like lack of control or bullshit like that, if you care for your partner and they say « stop it hurts », you stop, even if you are very excited and want them really bad ! I would be scared for your sex partner if you think like that !

the last part ヾ(☆▽☆)

Oh, I didn't include it here. In another comment I pointed out how he could be in subspace at the time, and thus unable to comprehend her hurting. Another commenter explained it with a detailed explanation. It's a pretty common occurrence, also considering how both of them are inexperienced in both sex and BDSM practises

I never heard of this and it is kinda scary, but sex isn’t one sided and you should be aware of your partner, BDSM or not !
And especially because they are inexperienced he should have stop ! I really liked that at first in this story the guy was careful with the girl until she got really into it, because he knew that all of this was new and could be frightening for her. That is why I’m a bit disappointed here
Also english isn’t my first language, I hope it’s ok !

I understand where you're coming from, so to explain to you, subspace is an altered mind situation for, well, a sub during their BDSM session with the dom. Some might say it's the reason people do BDSM at all, ahah.

Basically, during that period the Dom is fully in control of the Sub, and the Sub lets themselves get submerged in nothingness. What we see in this chapter is the Dom giving a command and the Sub performing it. Then the Dom realises that something went wrong and, not having a safe word (which is crucial for BDSM sessions) and relevant experience, tries to "plea for mercy", basically reversing their dynamic. This doesn't cause the Sub to come out out of subspace due to a) their inexperience and b) the lack of dynamic. The scene ends with a sub drop aka the Sub being forcefully brought back from subspace (in healthy BDSM relationships it's a gradual process with a lot of aftercare), instantly realising the situation and dropping down.

Also, let's not forget to mention that any Drop, be it sub drop or dom drop is a dangerous, dangerous thing that can leave permeating trauma on one's person. Simply put, it's a terrible experience for both.

Please note that all my stations come from pure facts and specific knowledge. The situation itself is never okay as it' causes hurting to both.

Oh okay I think I get it, thanks for explaining! I don’t have any experience in BDSM lol so I could not imagine a situation with someone not giving a shit about the partner saying stop
It kinda makes sense that they would be in an different state of mind during the session

There is a lot of non consensual sex that is normalized in manwha, a lot of bad situation are just brushed off and I strongly dislike this
I hope that it will not be the case here and that it will lead to “healthy” freaky stuff, with them clarifying the situation etc !

Glad my answer was helpful!

I know right!! It's absolutely terrible, we need more healthy representation!!! So I hope so too as this manhwa has such a great beginning