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Venting
Somberlyxx 22 10,2024
Okay need to get this off my chest rq bc GODDD i'm frustrated and I can't talk ab it w anyone. If you had to live with your creep of a grandfather and you're throwing a fuss abt it are you in the wrong or what.. Why the fuck am I getting yelled at as if I'm the one who sexually abused someone?? I'm actually losing it wtf. Why do old people get away......   3 reply
22 10,2024

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Tell me your original experiences
Somberlyxx 15 hours
idk why but the first thing that came to mind was when i was like 10 or 11 a lot of my friends started getting their periods and stuff (we weren't taught puberty in school yet) and i didn't know what it was and i asked a friend and she said it was when black stuff came out of your ass and that it only happens to girls And i felt fomo ig and I told......   1 reply
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Share you story
Somberlyxx 4 days
Just got diagnosed with adhd and depression.. everyone thinks it's a fake diagnosis though so like whatever sm for clarity ig bc now I'm questioning the validity of it too even though I can't even function properly. Besides I was told to just meditate and get a job as a solution... and my friends said everyone has adhd some just deal with it worse ......   3 reply
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How do you feel about online relationships?
Somberlyxx 19 days
I have a positive view of it only bc it genuinely worked out rlly well for my friends (They even met up and had a vacation tgth and stuff) but like I myself wouldn't get into a serious online relationship bc I can't with long distance :/ But its also my only option if I want a relationship bc I can't get a gf where i live sigh   reply
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Something you want to see more from BL?
Somberlyxx 30 06,2025
Less sex focused (no smut at all is fine too) and more about two people growing together and just deeply in love, not relationships that start with shallow sexual escapades that eventually become something more but something with more romance and yearning. With no power imbalances in the relationship too i'm so sick of rich x poor dynamics ugh. All......   reply
30 06,2025
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so how we feeling abt ww3 guys :D
Somberlyxx 22 06,2025
America and Americans (no offense not all of u) pmo. Why am I seeing some of y'all making jokes ab war while innocent civilians in another country are currently under threat and being attacked. I saw someone say "Being in America is being constantly worried whether we are about to be bombed or not" like bffr rn it sounds so tone deaf to me the priv......   2 reply
22 06,2025

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HOW TF DO YOU TALK TO PEOPLE
Somberlyxx 02 05,2025
Okay context.. Ig its because I barely text new people and have been texting the same few my whole life I really struggle with maintaining conversation with someone new (especially if its an online friend or smth) how do you just move past the awkward stage and what do you even talk about help its sm easier irl but i struggle with it online I keep overthinking that the other person isn't interested in talking and is just forced to continue bc I keep dragging it on sigh
02 05,2025
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Thoughts on fandom culture
Somberlyxx 06 10,2024
Sorry might yap a little but idk who else I’d talk abt this with.. So I’m just kinda curious are y'all actively involved in fandoms you enjoy and I don’t mean buying merch and creating content and stuff I’m talking about whether you like engaging with online discourse on certain controversies in fandoms and interacting with other fans..? And what kind of moments made you hate being in a fandom because of how other people acted in it?

Me personally I try to avoid them because it kind of ruins the fun for me like when I’m in fandom spaces I’m there to consume content and to have fun with other fans not to fight over things all the time if yk what I mean..and I genuinely don’t think anything is serious enough for people to send death threats and putting sm time and energy on hating etc over having differing opinions (I’m not even talking abt problematic stuff like proships just abt literally normal opinions and valid criticisms) and driving people out of fandoms… Ig what I’m trying to say is that it’s pretty exhausting seeing this happen all the time when you just wanna have fun. Heavy on cringe culture btw it makes some fandoms so unbearable to be in when all people can do is attack others for trying to have fun with their silly ships and headcanons and so on.
Tldr: fandom culture’s so toxic why can’t we just enjoy things
(I fear I’m j not built to be able to handle the internet guys) (and did this whole thought process start because I j started using twitter? Maybe!!)
06 10,2024
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Fanfics
Somberlyxx 06 07,2024
What are your fave fanfics and from which fandoms? Just curious and maybe looking for recommendations <3
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