Bish I didn't even know my mom had a name till I was like 5, I thought she was just "mom". Also I realized that Parents really are just regular humans, just humans with a shit ton of responsibilities. Some of them fall under the pressure and forget love, and others learn how to cope and try their best. Being a parent is unbelievably hard and I am g......
The one point missed by most comments is that - until everyone could face themselves as they truly were and accept themselves as such, they could not truly love another person (desire is easy - love is hard). Loving yourself requires you to accept your faults - just as loving another requires accepting their faults - and loving them /yourself in spite of those faults. Humans are naturally selfish, jealous, greedy and self-serving so, love is not a natural state for us (the reason love is so overwhelming). We must fight our natural state to love another person and it is a constant battle to maintain. However, the battle is easier to win once you find the person for which you are willing to defy your own true nature.
I am working on a BL right now with a writer and am scared that no one will like my art and that I will never be as good as Tan jiu and Old xian, which just fuels my lack of confidence and self worth :/
me: *brother gives a yaoi manga* okay...? *gets to the smutty part* ....... *straight face* I... think I like this....
I got my first dick when I was 19 like four years age... Kind of unpleasant at first but i got used to it quickly and it became something i enjoy.
What did you realize about your parents once you got older