I feel we are just seeing the roles reversed and because of that we feel woo young is not doing enough. If it was the other way around, people would not have raised such questions or had such opinions. I agree woo young is childish but again just because he gave birth doesn't literally translated to him knowing how to take care of the baby. It takes time to adjust instead I like the author is trying to normalize the mother not running around and the father, actually taking care of stuff. Coz normally even after the entire labour process the baby is given to the mother, and the father is seen either sleeping or complaining about the crying baby. We have such rigid gender norms that even though it's a bl we are still trying to recreate them. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
I feel we are just seeing the roles reversed and because of that we feel woo young is not doing enough. If it was the other way around, people would not have raised such questions or had such opinions. I agree woo young is childish but again just because he gave birth doesn't literally translated to him knowing how to take care of the baby. It takes time to adjust instead I like the author is trying to normalize the mother not running around and the father, actually taking care of stuff. Coz normally even after the entire labour process the baby is given to the mother, and the father is seen either sleeping or complaining about the crying baby. We have such rigid gender norms that even though it's a bl we are still trying to recreate them. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭