I'm a switch, but mostly S. I only submit to people who earn it. I like leading people through pain to pleasure and blurring the lines of both. I like the compassion needed to be a safe S. I also like people trusting me enough to submit to me, knowing that it will definitely be a journey and an exploration. There is a latent intimacy to being eithe...... reply
Nope, and there is nothing wrong with it either. People bug me about it, but I don't see the need other than for ease. If your in a long term relationship, and plan to stay that way, it can protect you, but if you're unsure, then don't. Simple as that. I don't feel like a freak for not wanting to be married. It is a highly important decision to mak...... reply
Routinely. I'll read and my fiancé will walk up behind and be like, oh that looks hot. Then he looks closer and realizes that it's yaoi and one guy just happens to be wearing a dress or a cheerleading uniform or pantyhose or heels or is having his nipples played with or whatever. Then he'll be like, oh... ok then. I read next to him and he's lear...... 1 reply