
Interviewer: "What do you think about Penelope?"
Me: "Talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, show stopping, spectacular, never the same, totally unique, completely not ever been done before, unafraid to reference or not reference, put it in a blender, shit on it, vomit on it, eat it, give birth to it."
Like i deeply related to him in the way that i also never felt the butterflies or fluttering towards someone, but that doesn't mean that you don't love someone. Love has different languages and ways, no one feels an emotion the same way.
BUT my dude spoke to his friend like he was pity dating her, that he didn't feel attraction towards her (which is contradictory as he even said he felt comfortable and attached to her, showing desire to build a relationship and a life with her, not thinking that their lives could be separate but still be in contact)
He wouldn't feel the same way with any random person on the street. And he desired to have a relationship with her, what is this if not romantic attraction? He desired to merge their lives and become a pair, to share their lifetime and wanted to be the one to be with her (showing that he didn't wish to be just friends and wanted a deeper relationship, in the way he said he felt that he wanted to answer her feelings)
They both need communication. And he needs to learn about himself and his emotions more (everyone needs to but you get the point) as one time he says he doesn't love her as a Woman and is just with her because she wants to but the other says he wants to be the one to be with her and also has sexual desire towards her, pick a side dude.
Aro is a huge spectrum so it isn't absolute, it can be just a difficulty of feeling a romantic attraction.
They aren't a good fit as they lack communication and have different love languages, also their relationship has been broken beyond repair so let's move on and in the future stop thinking that romantic love is a oneway path which if you don't fit the box you don't feel it. (If he didn't feel it, friendship could very well be enough to sate his emotional needs but we see that it is not the case.)
Anyways, i want to see more about him in a side story but now i miss Hyundo, so let's go back to him T-T.