that's right, Nijima! Shipping irl people to be in gay relationships, whether they're queer or not, is weird and can ruin their friendships. Especially when doing it blatantly in front of them.
pride month might be over, but justice still needs to be delivered for Brother Jiang Cheng!!! TO FREEDOM!!!!
He needs a cute boyfriend too
OH MY GAY LORDDDD. Please!!! Have mercy on meee aaaaaaa (≧∀≦)
I'm really impressed by the author. As a gay man, what Jun said in ch 8 pg 6-8 is exactly what I thought when I was in denial phase of my sexuality. I kept questioning why I was even born. If there were a cure for homosexuality I would easily take it. I was so scared since I live in a homophobic country.
I had an unrequited love with a girl in middle school for 7 years. Just like Jun, I loved and cherished her so much but I didn't get hard for her. It was an attempt to know if I could do it with a girl in the end, but the attraction in men kept growing stronger in me hahaha.
I also wanted to end up marrying a girl. But now I've learned to accept my sexuality and I don't want to change a thing even if there's a cure. And maybe if I end up marrying a girl, I would just be another Makoto-san.
P.S if you girlies think what makoto-san did is fucked up, you'd be surprised by how many down-low married guys in gay dating apps are.
the comments really dont know how common people like makoto are in gay dating apps lol
Exactly!!
I really admire and support everyone that, even if they live in an homophobic Country, accepts their selves and try to go on with their sexuality.
But yep, I think what Makoto (and every gay-married person like him) do is fucked up. Just because a lot of people do it in real life and dating apps, it doesn't mean that it is the right thing to do.
For a gay man to marry a woman, this hurts both the man and the woman for different reasons: the man forces himself to be with a person he doesn't feel attracted to; the woman thinks her husband loves her and is attracted to her when that's not true. Both of them deserves a partner who satisfy them and truly cherish for them.
So I will always think that it's wrong for a gay person (male or female) to marry someone of the opposite gender.
Freddie Mercury once stated that while he was sexually attracted to men, he could only ever truly fall in love with women, and that his ex-fiancé was the love of his life.
Asexual people have been known to fall in love emotionally, even though they have no actual sexual urges. It is possible for love and sex not to exist within the same gender roles as each other. So I can understand how Jun can love Miura and yet not be able to have sex with her.
That being said, you, yourself, have faced a tough road. One I will never be able to fully understand. So all I can say is, I am glad you made it through. Stay strong.
I relate - I questioned my existence and blamed my attraction based on my absent father
And this is why I will always stand as an ally for LGBTQ+ community. NO one should ever have to face this kind pain and sadness alone. Yes, I am straight, but I have also been suicidal. I hate watching others suffer. And let’s be honest, there is still so much prejudice and bigotry in the world. Ignoring it will not make it go away. Sexual identity and gender identity is something everyone is born with. It cannot be changed, and isn’t so black and white as to say that people are either gay or straight. There is a wide spectrum. Intolerance and hate, however, are traits that are learned. And it CAN be unlearned and changed.
Thank you so much!! Thank you for making this world a better place. (≧∀≦)
yeahh, I assume people like Makoto are people who were forced to marry someone they don't love; the pressure from their parents and the society. Now I'm trying travel and maybe move out of my country
I'm sorry for what happened to you, but I hope your in a better place now; physically and mentally
Really good! Please try hard, because you deserve to be in a relationship with someone you really like (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
If your parents or society tries to force marriage on you, then be strong and resist. Do not succumb to what THEY want.
For example, I'm a straight girl, but I'm the kind of woman that doesn't enter a relationship with light heart. So I really go easy and slow with men approaching me.
My family, friends and society put a lot of pressure on me because they say I'm in my marriage age, etc. But I don't care what they think. Even if they will criticize me, I will take my time finding the right person. Even if I have to wait until I'm 50 years old ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I agree 100%
Yes thank you I’m much better now