Ryoujo's Questions (5)

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/itonaga_kun_no_koi_no_ito/

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The Affairs of the Other World Depend on the Corporate Slave

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mashle_magic_and_muscles/

http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/t_sensei/ its not about family tho but wholesome
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_story_of_a_yakuza_boss_reborn_as_a_little_girl/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shounen_maid/ idk if this fits w what u want ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Don't beg me don't kiss me

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Depends on you, if you want to try and make the relationship work, you obviously have to also have a gpod telationship wih his family, what i suggest you do is talk to your boyfriend about how you feel, make sure you dont sound too mean cause yknow that usually a person's top priority is his family or himself, if he continues to not do anything about it or even go as far as side with his shitty brother, stay the fuck away from them instantly, as soon as he says something along the lines of
"My brother was just joking...."
Or
"Dont be rude to them..."
Walk away from the conversation immiedietly cause it just shows how they dont understand what you felt if they were in your situation and that they refuse to acknowledge that he comes from a family with genes of a nazis

girl break it off, do not let his family treat u like that, and if he lets them treat u like that then he clearly doesn’t respect u.

Seems like his family is really rude and disrespectful towards you! Ofcourse I have no clue how deep you and your boyfriend go, but I feel like he should stick up for you without you telling him, does he find dark humour funny? I feel like I'm not in a position to tell you what to do, but just stop and think about yourself, do you think this is ok? Are you unhappy with the things going on? Communication is key in every single relationship no matter how strong the connection is, so really it's up to you to see if you want to talk it out and give it a chance or to break it off, but damn they're really rude towards you ╥﹏╥ if I was put in this situation I would break it off since you've already voiced that ur unhappy with this, but its ur life do what u feel is best for u !! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

break up with him

possibly speak out to the family and let them know how u feel when they say those kind of remarks. Tell them it hurts you and it is very ignorant for them to say that. Hopefully your bf does not make those comments to u also but then again, he needs to do smth proper abt his family, if he cant defend you from his family how will he defend you from other bigger problems

It seems like you've already expressed to him that you don't appreciate being called those names, yet he still doesn't actively defend you. Break it off immediately.

i’ve already had an argument with his brother about him being racist and about the blm, because he thinks that black lives shouldn’t matter first, he was there the whole time and also said he didn’t side with his brother but i don’t think he did anything to change his brothers perspective on the movement.

First off his family is effed up. like is that seriously any way to treat their sons girlfriend, idk about u but that’s an issue I think u should definitely tell him about it and how u feel, and if he doesn’t understand then leave there’s no point in continuing your relationship with him if you keep getting rude insults by his family. The relationship would’ve never been fine if his family acts like (sorry not sorry) and what kind of ppl are they to even say that. Hun u deserve better go out there, find yourself a better men who would stick up for you, or a family that’ll treat you effing better. Like if they didn’t like you they could’ve just at least try to get along or ignore you but they’re being childish for saying some racist things, and I know it would be hard to leave like he could say “your just gonna leave cuz my parents doesn’t like you?” You can give them a second chance if u want to, and tell them that their racist “jokes” isn’t really nice to hear, if they notice how rude they were and apologized then yay but if they didn’t and continue to treat u like that I suggest leaving, then when you bf realize how amazing u are, and suffer the break up and family is going to realize what they did :)
But really I can’t stand these racist “jokes” at all like if it’s a joke then why am I not laughing :/
Good luck! (▰˘◡˘▰)

If that kind of attitude keeps appearing in his family side and if he still doesnt defend you your relationship is over already ur gonna break up anywayif that continue you'd rather be the one dumping the trash right?

If I were you, I'd break it off right away. Imagine if you continue the relationship and get married, you'd basically take his family as your own. Then there will also be interactions between your family and his. Imagine the drama that could ensue. Plus, when you're dealing with people who are condescending, and downright racist, it's pretty difficult to change their behavior if they don't have the desire to do so from their heart. And you're dealing with multiple people who are like that, what's the chance of all of them changing? On top of that, the guy doesn't even feel inclined to defend you. I just can't see how you can be happy in the long term saddled with a continuous burden. It'll eat you bit by bit on the inside & wear you down. Maybe I'm just a pessimist, but I truly think family issue is one of the hardest problems to work on. When worse comes to worst, would he choose you, or his family? Again, if I were you, I'd rather end it early before it comes to such an ugly situation & avoid hurting my own feelings in the process.