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even though it was rough, judging by andy’s reaction he seems to be into it

Doesn’t matter, there’s no consent. That’s still sexual assault.

In a type of way consent was given bc why else would he come over in the first place and yeah it was kinda rough but some people are into that type stuff. You have to understand it from both perspectives. And the fact of the matter will not change CONSENT IS KEY

Do you not know what consent is? He didn’t say yes and he didn’t agree to it, regardless of how he responded to it.

Idk i feel if u didnt like it u should be reading something more wholesome, i think if u know that this was going to be a bdsm related story then roughness wouldnt effect you. I get that sexual assault is no joke, but i dont really think he raped him. Cause even when he shoved a finger in andy, andy was just like be gentle. And even tho andy was crying it might have been just his gag reflex. So unless he says that he felt like it was sexual assault or doesnt consent to the sex in the next chapter then ill consider that to be the truth, but for now i think the roughness was mainly to get him out the shell. Also another thing to point out is the seme liked the red haired guy(im not good with names rip) and that must mean hes kinky too.

I couldn't agree with you more. Like these types of bl's are not everyone's cup of tea and in my opinion I believe the author wanted to write something different then the basic "I love you time for cuddles" type bl's. But I'll say it again CONSENT IS KEY we'll just see in the upcoming chapters of what Andy thinks.

Exactly.

People are like it's BDSM, it's not! BDSM is about consent.
He just likes it rough and he doesn't know, NO.

Where is the consent? If you don't have consent it's plain rape. I don't know why people try to ignore this or make it ok just because it's fiction. My moral compass doesn't fly out the window just because I read manga for 5'.

It's not selfish of us to not want rape driven plots. The rest of you are weirdos. It really ruins the story for me.

Anyone who sees this as acceptable is dangerous. Do whatever you want AFTER you get your partner's consent and keep in mind they have the right to take that consent back at any time.

Well in the end this is all just a story so wether it was consensual or not doesnt really matter. It matters when people actually start doing things in real life. So even if it was or wasn’t consensual we need to come together and understand that even if it’s undesirable this is what the author intended in the story. I think that this is only okay because its a story i obviously have morals that this should never be done in real life, but when its a story its not real there for not concerning. Im sure even tho the author has written a nonconsensual story that doesnt mean that theu condone actual rape or take part in it. Just as i dont think everyone here love the idea of rape and constantly take part in it. Since this is a story some things are left for us to interpret. Plus in real life i feel like being like “hey may i pls shove my dick in your mouth” would seem a little awkward. This is my interpretation on this at least. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

I also dont think its selfish of you to want non rape plots nor do i think that just because theyre having sex means it bdsm. I'm just stating that this story is infact related to bdsm, therefore there might be some other themes as well. although i do know that bdsm is all about trust of one another. they aren't very close and they didn't have a good relationship before hand so there is bound to be something that isnt fully consensual with them. I also think this is used as a climax point in the story just to pull the reader in more. I said earlier that i think if you cant stomach something that isnt even as bad as killing stalking, warehouse, obey me, unfather and ect. (The bad shit) then u should stick to some wholesome stuff cause yoai has reoccurring themes of rape and sexual assault.

It's ok to acknowledge someone's wrongdoings even in fiction. I don't see the problem in that.

Also it's not even about the fiction part at this point, people are denying that this is rape which is scary. You can say (even though I disagree) I don't mind this kind of plot in fiction but you need to acknowledge the rape part. If you don't there's an issue. We need to be able to differentiate right from wrong even if we excuse it in the name of "fiction".

If there isn't consent it's not BDSM, simple as that.

Also the story for the side couple was super good when it came to consent, what happened? Even if I wanted to avoid such a story how could I have predicted it would be like this? And so after reading the latest chapter I had to share my input that's all.

I hope there are consequences to his actions.

I can tell why you said it feels rushed but AT LEAST PARAM CONFESSED TO HIWI INSTEAD OF THAT DUMB BITH HAN (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

It’s cuz they expect that their pair is the only one and characters can’t and should not make mistakes....cuz in real life we never make mistakes nor have had multiple partners...

Riiight, lmaooo. Seriously don’t understand the issue.

Exactly. I don't get all the hate on Mr. Han on the comments.