in a weird way this guy is actually helping fix their relationship problems now Kang admitted he REALLLLY would not be okay with Ahn moving on lmao. At least it's pushing them to talk, even if the trope is super annoyingm... I'm also glad Ahn is breaking the another BL trope and using his head to back out of such an obvious trap. I hope that continues and he learns to have a bit more boundaries, he's a very friendly guy by nature so I can see how it's something he still needs to learn to control (I mean look at how he ended up with Kang in the first place??? lmao). He's been a bit too naive latley but I appreciate he didn't want out anyone, I think stories forget how dangeours it can be to be exposed as gay in environments like this
AND ANOTHER THING (yes I'm back I can't get over how awful of a relationship this is lmfao), it is NOT his job to "teach her" by this weird avoidant method to be more independent. Author is trying to paint him as some mature mastermind but he just looks like an emotionally constipated dick who doesn't know how to speak to his girlfriend. If I had a friend who was being treated like this by their S/O I would be screaming for her to break up with him, I TRULY dont get why author thinks this weird dynamic where she begs for attention and he gives her crumbs is cute?! This is the epitome of shoujo trope brainrot. I'm not saying you can't still enjoy the story of course but whoever wrote this is cooking with faeces I fear, not a single squeal or giggle or aww has left my mouth since god knows when
Nah he's actually such a shit boyfriend. He KNOWS what her attachment style/needs are like and doesn't even bother to bend a little or communicate better after all this time. Relationships are supposed to be 50/50, you need to learn to mold to each others needs. I know he "loves her" but he genuinely acts like he doesn't give a shit. Aloof characters can be fun but wtf is up with this trope??? Do mangakas seriously want to be ignored by their partners so badly? It's got to be a mental illness - sorry I just need to rant about this I'm sick of straight romances like this bro, can men develop some fucking empathy please (also Im exaggerating my words a bit so dont start a war in my replies thanks)
Nahh, the more I think about it the angrier I get lol. She does NOT deserve this, she needs to find someone who matches her energy and expresses their love. It's just so unfair to her, he doesn't even try to defend her!! You can't step in for TWO SECONDS and say "yes we're still dating shut up" or more than a goodnight or good morning?!!! go to hell!! GIRL STAND UP!
EXACTLY!! Does he think he's trying to prove something like "see, you don't need me"? Fine, break up then! Their relationship objectively looks pathetic, it's just so uncomfortable watching him reject her attempts to connect and continuously embarass her in front of everyone. Why does author think this sort of dynamic is in any way attractive...? It's not cute or quirky anymore, just sad. I can't imagine only saying good morning and goodnight to my boyfriend for one whole week and nothing else. Sorry for the long message, this has seriously disrupted my soul lmao
Men will get called something mean/rejected by a girl ONCE at 5 years old and become Andrew Tate for the rest of their life Im mostly joking here though, hes not thaaaat bad lol. This is sweet so far though and I love her personality she really is adorable, I hope he can express his love for cute things more