I don’t get why MC had to choose the sunbae out of everyone considering their past (+ the fact it’s his ex first love). If he wanted slim model, it could’ve been anyone else slim, why the sunbae specifically?
I guess plot reasons, to make some drama. Personally I wouldn’t mind if my partner was with their first love, for work purpose, but seeing the sunbae being weird and annoying, as well as bringing up their past, pissed me off. He was also being flirty, but I hope it stops.
I can also see why ML is insecure. He overheard people gossiping about him badly, and how MC’s instagram is filled with his sunbae mostly (not sure if that’s true or a rumor). And then he sees MC with the sunbae, and he’s frustrated.
Besides that, I love the ML’s body. I hope ML’s looks turn out to be the best one, I’m petty for good reasons. Sometimes, slim models aren’t always the best. There are models who have similar body types to ML, it isn’t impossible.
In Korea, there are men models who have muscular and buff bodies. It may not be the twink slim men models, but those buff ones in Korea exist. And many people like them, so KBS is a minor issue I think.
I don’t like this. Especially the sunbae. Something about him makes me want to drag him away.
I just don’t get why Ginga (in the side story where he had a past fling with Kou) feel the need to hide it from Yuu as if he’s “cheating” when not cheating.
And after Yuu had found out in wedding arc, he didn’t find out about them doing this fling specifically but that they’ve definitely fucked each other before, and he’s fine with it. But I definitely wish these two had told him.
I don’t see the reason to treat it like it’s bad if Yuu knows. Ginga said he’d rather die than Yuu find out. Like HUH?? Or maybe he just said it at the time before they were all together.
ALSO:
Author made some short story where Kou bottoms for Ginga. I hope it’s part of the main story, and not just some fantasy AU. I need a sandwich with Ginga in middle.
Ugh. When I saw the ML going up to the MC’s ex sex partner, I thought they looked hot together.
Just wanted to get this off my head. ML could pass as a power bottom, punching the dirty seme.
FUCKK. OR Mc and the sex friend should’ve ended up together or MC with someone normal. And Sex friend rapist with ML rapist.
A spoiler for next chapter— NO; ML does not rape MC, they communicate I believe and then have sex.
MC: Seonwoo (BOTTOM)
ML: Taemoon (TOP)
Regarding latest chapter (CH 65), god their miscommunication is A.W.F.U.L. Don’t even get me started with ML overthinking, I know they’re both a bit acoustic but goodness gracious spare me the misery!
Both of them are at fault for the miscommunication, I know a lot (based on what I’ve seen and it’s true ML is the most overthinking one) are blaming ML for being the overthinking one, but both are quite ridiculous. ML already feels horrible because he saw MC on his phone, but didn’t answer any of his texts—so ML knew MC was avoiding him. But he didn’t ask MC why.
And MC suspects ML could be cheating.
Thanks father in law! (He said something about ML meeting Semyung, that is the blondie’s name, but Semyung also means 3 in Korean. And MC thought he was saying the ML is meeting 3 people.)
ML worsened MC’s suspicions of cheating by telling a white lie. But MC didn’t express his own thoughts either, both enjoy bottling these questions, so it’s not a one-party fault. Obviously, ML should have not lied, so that’s on his ass.
For EXAMPLE: (CH 65, pg. 17)— MC wondered why ML was lying, “Mr. Jeong, are you lying?” In his head. But he really should have asked that in dialogue! People say ML is the only one that overthinks, but MC literally wondered if ML is bleeding cause in his imagination, ML went so hard with others that he bled (CH 65, pg. 19).
ML should have told MC where he was at, and who he was meeting, and WHY at the very least. MC deserves to know that it was because of himself, his own picture was taken after all. And ML is his partner.
MC and ML both say words that are vague at times, and confusing, causing both to believe what isn’t actually true! For example (CH 65, pg. 20): MC said something about ML acting weird (in mind, MC suspects of possible cheating but doesn’t want to confront ML so he said it vaguely), and ML asked: “Weird?”, and Seonwoo said YEAH.
Thus, (CH 65, pg. 22) ML INTERPRETED that as MC referring to their previous date as WEIRD. Then ML got upset, and again, ML thinks MC only likes his body—so his anger is piling up. And that happened in end of CH 65.
ML basically thought : So they were romantic to me and a nice date, but not to you? (DUDE, WHEN DID MC say that?) If you feel that’s what MC meant to say, ASK MC! Both of you. Well, I can also see why ML felt this way, MC thinks about sex a lot. And MC said: “All we do is go to restaurants”, honestly MC was a bit rude here since it’s something ML wanted to do with him and not just sex after sex.
But I also get that MC’s love language may be physical touch, and ML’s more of romantic or emotional. Both have those language, but not equal.
This is why I say both are ridiculous.
Also, I don’t know how anyone could believe the ML would cheat. Actually crazy how many are lenient with bottoms meeting their exes or ex flings in other stories and try to reason it, but not so much with the comments I’ve read, hating on ML. The prediction of cheating is actually making me confused, is it only because of his promiscuous past that makes you think that? Isn’t that quite a bit of slut shaming?
Do you really believe a guy who prefers romantic date over fucks, would cheat for some average Joe? He’s so romantic, and cherishes MC. I mean yeah, ML was a manwhore before and y’all’s judgement of that is exactly one reason why he’s insecure about telling MC about his promiscuous past.
That was so random from some readers. This was when ML went to meet the blonde ex fling, and then beat the blondie up in next chapter.
And I realized they’re the same readers who didn’t actually read and only skimmed, and they’re the same ones who don’t like the ML and how MC deserves much better. Both do. There’s a reason why people who explain exist for those who don’t understand or read.
:)
Readers talk bad about Kan Chan (uke in 2nd story here), rightfully with valid reasons, but he isn’t a villain. The true villains are the coworkers that caused his mental health to downfall, as well as the hierarchy or age hierarchy. I see some readers wanting him to be prosecuted or something, but they don’t talk about how he became like that because of abuse. Had it not been for Kan himself telling his ex to go, this abusive cycle would’ve continued. His realization and letting go is redemption.
Not many trash abusers get suffering or realize how horrible they were. 90% of the BLs I have read, they don’t reflect on it. But Kan here has reflected for years, he let go of his ex, and told him how they can’t go back anymore. He is sorry clearly.
It would be different reaction from me if Kan had kept the abuse going, and not letting go of his victim Ex.
Abusers don’t even do the bare minimum of letting go, so yes I am praising him, this is just how I feel about it. Both were abused, if I’m being hypocritical by greeting them differently because I hate that he abused, what about the fact he was abused too? Had he not let go of Yumi, Yumi would have stayed and his mental health would have a downfall.
You can’t tell me that him letting go is not awesome. Many abusers don’t even do this and it leads to crime cases.
Obviously Kan did wrong, nowhere did I condone that. For me, someone evil is those who abuse their authority and do not feel remorse, especially in many Asian cultures when it comes to work—there are people like that, therefore I think the coworkers were more evil. I’m not saying Kan didn’t do anything wrong, he was a bad person for sure.
But I’m just glad he let go of his ex instead of smothering him more. And Yumi found love, so did he.
The abuse cycle stopped.
Putting him on a pedestal is nothing of what I did, I don’t think he’s a great person. But he is a human who’s done bad things. So don’t know where you think I admire him or think of him as some savior. Maybe it’s my wording but I’ve other posts where I noted his bad behavior/abusive behavior.
And not once did Kan praise himself for the things he did, he has always hated what he did, and regret it big time. I personally don’t forgive him for what he did, nor justify. But I’m just happy that he let go.
I'm still kinda iffy about u admitting to praising him. and "letting go" might not be the bare minimum of an abuser, but it is the bare minimum of a HUMAN BEING. Actually the bare minimum is to not hit someone in the first place just because that's what happened to u. I know tons of people (myslef included) that have been treated unfairly )i would even say abused) by others, but i and the people i l know WOULD NEVER take it out on our loved ones. His backstory is sad, but it's not an excuse. I also can't find him "letting go" of yumi as "awesome" just cause he's a horrible person, i more rolled my eyes at it. One last thing, how I see it is that his coworkers are horrible cause they're abusers and he is the same amount of horrible because he is an abuser. Again i get ur pov but in my eyes, abuse=abuse
Who’s that guy that wanted a hookup? And who’s that tan/brown guy that ML was jealous over in CH 27. What chapter did he appear?? I forgot.