Hear me out doesn't Noah looks like their child , he is a perfect mix of them
That's what I've been thinking. The old war hero also being named Dietrich had me suspicious that the cyclical nature of the house is reflected in other parts of the world. Maybe there's some grand time loop or general time fuckery as a result of this mysterious deal I'm pretty sure Charlotte/the lady made.
People says the ex has gay vibes but I think he gives asexual vibes , I feel he'll only do things if he has to
What you al describe is not being asexual, but apathetic. Asexual people have no interest in sex, but they love like normal people and also are romantic. All that is "missing" is the sexual aspect of a relationship. Apathy is when you are stoic af and don't feel love, passion, romance and "do things because you feel you have to".
This is good hopefully someone will pick it up