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I wonder if some people know how to read, they don't seem to have noticed the "horror, psychological", books of this genre will obviously address many absurd and even heavy subjects, regardless of the genre the criminal focuses on or the motives. It's like those people who see a VILLAIN commit a crime against a idk in a movie and question why he hurt that X. He's a villain, his job is to be hated. Reading a work of this genre and understanding it is one thing, another is romanticizing it like some sick people did with killing stalking.
If it's not a genre you like, avoid it and look for calmer things that you like. I like works of this content, i have a preference for psychological horror and i like to see how the villain of the story developed like the one in this manga. He's bad not because he has a trauma that will make almost a multitude of people forgive him, but he's bad because of something in his nature. He was born to be a cruel asshole and son of a bitch.
“Oh, but Kaela! He only focuses on attacking women, that's absurd!” I mean, he's a monster/villain.... He's supposed to be someone bad and unfair. If you like villains who use trauma to get affection from the audience, I'm sorry. This bomb here is not for you.
And also, i must remember that works of this genre should in NO WAY be romanticized. It is psychological horror, something that, by its nature, is not healthy and should not be considered healthy.
Well you see not everybody is smart and they try to show their sensibility in the most stupidest way, in short these ppl pretend to stand on a high moral ground thinking they're doing something meaningful but forget to understand things completely n that how hollow their arguments sound, you'll come across many peeps here holding a beacon of justice which is doing nothing.
These peeps are also one of a kind, no hate to them, I don't really care what these kinds think or do as long as they're minding their own business but horror/psychological/thriller etc are some genres that should be read for what it is only.
All the things you wrote, I agree with them, have my like
Although i see that the development of their relationship is a little more realistic in certain details, especially in the creation and growth of haesoo. We must take into account that each person has their own time to improve and develop, just because you act in a certain way in X situation, it does not mean that everyone will, so having consideration and respect for each person's development is important.
Also, taking into account that some people, myself for example, it takes a certain amount of time to accept things without wanting to pay them back or accept that you deserve to be loved. Especially in troubled relationships like Haesoo's with her ex, considering her passive personality since adolescence, it is expected that someone like her would take more time to improve, accept yourself and grow as someone who knows how to have their own opinions without feeling fear or anxiety.
For example, in my case i had a relationship for 7 years with my ex childhood friend, when he turned 18, he wanted to start having sex with me, however it was not something i wanted because i was still underage (16 years old) and i wanted to have respect for the upbringing my grandparents gave me and for myself, but one day he said he almost cheated on me and apologized, as i was a very silly girl - although i still am, but a little more aware - i allowed him to have sex with another person, I constantly felt guilty for not doing what he wanted, for not having a more intimate relationship with him, but i really wasn't feeling ready, i was very young and I always respected my age. The last few years of our relationship were extremely turbulent, he had become another person and had become a jerk to me, he was always inventing something to convince me to sleep with him, there were only 3 times when it almost worked, but it seemed like my subconscious always warned me about it and i would quickly change my mind because i felt extremely anxious and pressured. After we broke up, i found out from one of his friends that he always talked badly about me, calling me all sorts of bad things and saying that if it were up to him, he wouldn't even be able to do it while i was sleeping, because with my "fear radar" i would wake up before he even touched. Well, after that i developed a great difficulty in relationships, i can't accept anything without wanting to pay it back, something that my friends always complain about. I can't get into relationships because i don't see myself as someone who deserves to be loved or i think I'm too old for it (I'm only 21, lol)
Somehow, my denial towards Haesoo is because i see myself in her and feel nothing but pity. That's why i strongly wish for her to grow up and overcome this, even if it takes some time. And sorry about how much i yapped, sometimes i get too excited.
you deserve to be loved. i wish you nothing but the best in your journey of healing. your story brought me to tears.
Mhm! I also wish that my healing journey passes as quickly as possible, especially having the support of my grandparents who are by my side helping me. I want to be able to have a normal life. Thank you and i wish the sabe, may all the best come to you!