Why the fuck is there people asking why he hasn't told what happened to his boyfriend and that it's going to be worse and that the boyfriend will be hurt? And just to be clear, there shouldn't be a fight between them because of this, the boyfriend has nothing to forgive; that fucking sick professor has all the fault.
Be more empathic guys, I don't think it's too nice when someone you trusted harms you in that way.
You want to know why he hasn't talked with his boyfriend? Well, simple: You feel ashamed, guilty because that's how the person that harms you makes you feel and clearly you feel afraid of hurting someone you love (because you think everything is your fault) and feel afraid of losing someone too.
Reading all of this made me feel horrible.
I sincerely hope no one has to go through this, never.
well, I guess everyone has there own opinion, but... If I can say my point of view, I think it's wrong not saying...
A relationship is based in love, respect annnnd trust. And if ever lied you know that with time, that lie becomes bigger and bigger. (not a lie in this case, he omitted but well..)
I really understand his fear but, but he's really playing dumb, because soon or later he will be caught (we know that lol), and then it will be hell to explain :/
Even ifffff he stays safe, he will fear it till his death... the longer it takes, harder it makes.
BUT, it's my opinion ok lol ~ ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
You're right
If it was easy to talk about it the prisons will be full of rapists, sadely it's not
I agree with you, BUT how is it bad that we want him to tell jungwoo what happened because it's going to painful for both of them when jungwoo inevitably ends up finding out about it from someone else? is that not empathetic? we all KNOW why he hasn't told jungwoo, we just WANT him to because that's going to be the right thing to do in the end.
Because it really will benefit the sooner he talks about it.
The longer Hyung delays telling, the more likely the boyfriend will think Hyung doesn’t trust him nor find him reliable enough to help him through his trauma. It’s a blow when the person you really love doesn’t seem to trust you.
Plus, and this is from personal experience, it’s one thing having something done to you and it’s another to actually say it out loud. You know your world’s going to change, and you’re not ready for that change. Once it is said out loud, however, then you can finally acknowledge what’s been done and start the process of healing those wounds.
Hyung keeping quite like this is not healthy, and that’s why he really should tell the boyfriend, or ANYONE really, about it before things get worse.
Guys I know it's not healthy and that he should talk about it, of course. But you can't expect him to do it so fast, that's why I think it isn't empathic. It's not about not trusting each other, the thing is that it is not easy to talk about it, and I'm talking from the experience too, it took me so many years to accept it and talk with a psychologist, and I still can't talk about it with my family because I think they're better without knowing it, because they will feel bad about it.
The thing is, as a person who experienced something similar, it's not easy and it's wrong to blame him for not saying it, it's going to be worse for himself, he's going to be hurt but you have to give him time, he needs to process what happened to him.
And I still think that the people I love the most is going to be happier without knowing it, because I still think they are going to feel guilty and sad because of this. So I kind of understand him, and yes of course I would love him to talk about it, to tell someone that the teacher is fucking sick so he doesn't do it to other guys, but he needs time.
Sorry for writing so much, and sorry if you felt bad for what I wrote, I guess I said it in a wrong way before, I just understand him a lot.
Thank you so much for sharing this translators, I'm loving this webtoon ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~