
The blonde doesn’t seem to be as bonded as the other, considering she was bashing her to her ex calling her a slut while the other wanted her bf to praise her. I understand it’s a inferiority complex but don’t treat your friend like that because of it.

Well no, more like its toxic and we know it, but it doesn't actually bother anyone. I sort of relate it to the fact that my friends and I just call each other "bitches" while in the moment, but nobody actually takes it to heart because we've known each other for years and things like that don't faze us, and we don't consider it a true insult, which for example, would instead be something like an attack based on a personal issue/circumstance.
Also, in that moment it felt more like the short haired friend was more annoyed in her friend's stead because she was being viewed inappropriately. Since it seems like she wasn't that in love w/ her boyfriend, and she even started to question the reason she got upset.
It's so hard to explain so I'm done here, or maybe it's just how my friendships are but that's because we've known each other for years, so maybe my views on true friendship is different, where people aren't sensitive and small things like that, we don't care...
Well, this is just my input and take of the situation

The reason why the other girl asked her Bf to praise her friend wasn’t for a good reason lmao. Like that girl just asked her Bc to say it so she can just break up with him and/or get irritated lol, the more he said, the more reasons she had to break it off.
And I think you’re taking the “slut” comment too seriously. like the two of them are close enough to use offensive language in a casual, non offensive way. Plus u also have to consider this is a translated comic; the Japanese word may have mean something less harsh.

Is everyone here hisoka kins? Because last I checked he was 15. So if I go around messing with 12 year olds because Id have the mind of a 12 year old while being an adult, it’s okay because I don’t know any better? Fujoshis already hit a low when they were shipping Sangwoo with Yoonbum but now y’all shipping a 21+ year old with a 15 year old? Do better bitch.

It’s sad as hell. Then they act like they deserve a reward for it because they read worse. “I’m not like other girls, I fetishize children, rape, and abuse in gay relationships and if someone tells me they don’t agree with it instead of acknowledging it’s wrong to write an actual community in toxic situations 95% of the time, I tell them read Shounen Ai.”

So- it’s not racism but they made two chapters calling him a ‘black ball’, ugly, and disgusting? Colorism IS racism, when you judge based on skin it’s racism. He looked exactly the same except darker skin and beauty marks, so it’s not like a huge change. I enjoyed the story but he could transform into ANYONE else if that’s the case but he changed into a black person- Author may not have intended racism based on ignorance but it’s 2020, its easy to read why blackface and colorism is wrong even though it should be common knowledge not to bash someone for their skin. She’s an damn adult. People excusing Asian countries for their mind set is why they will never understand, they’re a different ethnicity, not a different age.

The author could’ve just had him slap on lots of makeup but no of course he had to colour his face black as well. How disgusting.
I’m Asian but if people keep justifying blackface over and over again with the reason that it’s just the “asian mindset”, it’s making us asians in general look dumb and ignorant. Not all of us think that way. Stop thinking we’re babies or something. People need to stop justifying and start educating.

It’s so crazy people are justifying this scene behind bdsm, this is NOT okay. As a ACTUAL DOM, not a 50 shady of grey or mark me bark reader, but REAL LIFE DOM, you should NEVER try to purposely make your sub use the safe word. It is a word when your sub feels unsafe or very uncomfortable so the fact he pushed that till Chanwoo was in tears just because of unrequited feelings that weren’t in the original agreement is fucking shitty. This is NOT bdsm or what we stand for, this is manipulation, a man who loves control and masochistic abuse victim. I continued to read because I hoped for some redemption because I was a fan of the original story but THIS? It’s not it, and I bet it’ll be brushed over to put them in a relationship. If this was a psychological tag then I’d understand but this is ROMANCE, that’s the wild part.

PREACH
honestly I don't feel like Chanwoo has the right to feel jealous cuz MD already confessed to him and he rejected him but like srsly a safe word is just there in case your partner isn't comfortable, you can't force him to say it by pulling shit like this, MD srsly fucked up. Chanwoo not saying the safe word whenever they had their play is proof that he is comfortable, why do you feel the need to make him say the word? Srsly fuck u MD
And I can already see those toxic fans coming in like "if you don't want to read don't" or "Chanwoo agreed to this" and all I gotta say is get some help cuz you're justifying manipulative shit

But actual Doms are not perfect and can get swayed by their emotions. And Chanwoo isnt a good Sub either. He does not trust MD and is never comfortable with his wn limits. MD was trying teach Chanwoo that it is ok to say this is not what you want to do.
IRL relationships are not perfect so neither are MD and Chanwoo. MD isnt a perfect Dom can be swayed by his emotions and imo chanwoo is a terrible sub who has trust issues and cant ask for help when he needs it. Which is needed in a S/M relationship. If Chanwoo was able to communicate with MD Im pretty sure this could have been prevented

Trust me I got a lot of dislikes and backlash for expressing my opinions about wrong things in yaoi with the first one being consent and trust especially in stories that claim to be bdsm, it's usually new or underage yaoi fans who are not properly educated about stuff that come for reasonable ppl so yea just shut them down and you do you
We all know MD srsly fucked up this time and the fact that he was kind at first or that he's handsome won't save him from it

You don’t have to be a perfect Dom just to know not to push your sub’s limits, if Chanwoo wasn’t ready to express himself then DONT push his trauma on him and make him do something he didn’t want to do. He wanted to manipulate him into wanting to be with him or either he loses their comfortable sexual companionship to someone who used him. That’s why you need PATIENCE in s/m relationships, you don’t just force someone’s hand on fire to let them know it’s hot. You’re blaming Chanwoo for not wanting a serious relationship with someone just because you feel he should and because he’s not one to use a safe word? You shouldn’t try to FORCE someone to use that, it means you’re making them no longer feel safe. He triggered his sub on purpose, that is not okay. If you support MD then do so but don’t come here trying to justify his actions on MY comment when it’s clear I don’t support it.
So we gonna ignore the second to last was rape at first then the last one was a pedophile.
Yeah right? Did anyone else get hisoka vibes? (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
The guy in the last one sorta creeped me out... Like was it supposed to be hot? I just felt bad ╥﹏╥
Yeah the last two were nasty af. I wanted more of the first couple.