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I mean it depends, in real life some men (even trans men) are ok with being called mom. I dont think its a problem for it to happen in stories. But when many if not most stories with a family (consisting of two men and kids) always have one of them being called mom, you could argue that its an attempt to make them "straight adjacent". Why should a ......
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-your mouth is saying no but your body is saying yes -you're so wet down there (assholes dont self-lubricate) -I know you want it you dirty bitch -your body is so honest (getting hard when you are raped doesnt mean you enjoy it)
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Rational Pervert Romance, When the killer falls in love (both guys are buff, but there arent any sex scenes, idk who the bottom is)
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Usually BL Mangas where one of the guys is straight just turn me away from reading it entirely. And I cant say I enjoy seeing it here. BL is supposed to be about men loving men, so I dont get how straight guys have anything to do with it. Howether I'll give it a Chance because many people say its amazing

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So, my cousin is like dead now right,but we were openly gay (only) to eachother. So somtimes when I read a cute or spicy moment in BL , I can’t help but remember how much my cousin used to fanboy over little stuff like that. How he would grab onto my shoulder and push me around while screaming nonstop into his bed, while I’m just trying to watc......
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I once witnessed a cat get hit by a car right in front of me. The sound of the collision still haunts me and within seconds, the poor thing was gone. It was a stark reminder of how fleeting life is. We never know when someone standing beside us might be gone the very next moment. This experience is part of why I avoid forming deep emotional bonds w......
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One day, when I decide to live my life the way I want to, I wont have a family anymore. My mom said I'd be dead to her if I was gay. I'll be alone on christmas, New years, easter and all year round
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I guess i have a platonic first love?I want to spill lore too. My childhood friend, He was a big dork,overbearing and a crybaby. We met in elementary school, nobody wanted to play with him, and nobody wanted to play with me. the first person to see me and want to stick around. I was a really sad,insecure and angry person then. I wish he could se......
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I just know I'll never be a bottom, I'd rather be crushed by a meteor. I dont want to be born and find out I'm considered a second class citizen who is automatically expected to bottom. If I choose nameverse, it doesnt even necessarily mean that I have to date my "soulmate". If something like that even exists, what even makes someone your soulmate?......
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The thing about this is, it’s known that most women who read BL read it for a few different reasons. I saw some paper/article a few years ago on it, and I remember these were reasons: 1.) because they’re attracted to men, in general (the muscles and physicality, etc). Number one seems simple enough and makes sense. Someone else said it best her......
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Its true that fetishization exists, but some people make it seem like its some huge problem. A lot of these types of people hating on BL are also being lowkey racist. Alice Oseman for example prides herself in being the author of a mlm story without sex in it, while saying that BL is fetishizing gay men. "Its not appropriate, because they are teena......
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The only people who think depression is cool are people who dont have it. Suffering doesnt give you character development and doesnt make you cool. It just makes you suffer. I cant say I ever had depression (I was never diagnosed), but I do hate my life. I tried to cut myself because I wanted people to notice, I didnt want them to think it was just......
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I have none. I'm good at drawing and I love attention, so no talent of mine would go unnoticed. Although you could argue that there is no such thing as talent. You might start out being a bit better than other beginners, but if you do not practice at all, you're just mediocre. Even the "talentless" person can become better by working Hard.
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Unironically I feel like that too right now. I feel like shit, and nothing seems to make me feel better. I know that everything passes, but I want it to be over RIGHT NOW. Why did god, or the universe make my life so shit? Edit: No hate to christians though. Religion is not all thats bad in the world. It can be used to do both good and bad things.
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I'm not an immigrant but a son of immigrants. I've been living in x european country since birth, but people can tell that I'm not from there. Appearently the way I say "r" is more pronounced, which is what gives it away. Not only that, I'm less eloquent when speaking the native language than other people my age (which I'm working on). I cant remem......
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I watched sailor moon and cardcaptor sakura, as a child I didnt seem to have a problem with gay stuff so I wasnt aversed to seeing more of it. I cant really remember how I got into BL, but unlimited internet access probably contributed to it. It just got recommended to me through the algorythm. I dont know about other people, but I'd say having unl......
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not a quote but that scene from I Saw The TV Glow where mc breaks down and pleads for help bc he feels like he's dying from living in this fake body and fake world for so long and the world literally freezes so his cries go unnoticed and unacknowledged. i already knew i wasn't cis beforehand but i didn't feel like i had the time to explore and expr......
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I have a LOT of Songs that I like, this is a bit difficult. -Stairway to Heaven by Led Zeppelin -Ohne dich by Rammstein