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sometimes i see people's comments on bls and they're like "uke is so cool" or "seme is so fineee" and idk it pisses me off i would like to see people refer to the characters by their names and not their position in the relationship... idk it just feel dehumanizing to me ig? (even tho they're fictional... honestly i probably shouldn't care ) but then again, i don't mind when people refer to the characters as mc or ml and idk if that's hypocritical of me

my mom is mexican and i love her and her food so much!! but despite eating spicy food my whole life, my spice tolerance doesn't seem to get any better? every time i tell my mom i don't feel like eating her super spicy food bc i have the WORST time in the toilet after she starts scolding me and i feel like i should really increase it somehow. any tips?

ik fujoshi is for girls and fudanshi is for guys but what would someone use if they were nonbinary??