i read half of it so long ago & do not remember much of it. i know the FL was taken by this much older doctor posing as if he were to help her-- after her family's place was burned down-- but ended up taking her for his own advantages... his son, ML, who also studied medicine ended up becoming interested in her & wanted to help her get away from hi......
Listen up. It's totally understandable to feel a bit confused and maybe even hurt. You've been through a lot with this guy, and it's hard to know what to expect now that he's back.
The motel thing... yeah, that's a little off-putting. It feels like he's jumping right back into the same casual, maybe even disrespectful, vibe you were trying to leav......
The motel says it all. He chose that of all places. Like wtf? Either ask what his intention is or tell him no you don’t feel comfortable with that
As long as you guys like each other and there’s no cheating or anything, nothing else should matter, right?
Edit: wait I didn’t read it correctly. If you feel like he’s disrespecting you and he’s don’t something thats made you feel negative like now more than once, don’t get with him anymore.
go meet him and decide.
I think people can change drastically sometimes, and he might have some alternative situation that makes it so that he needs to meet you like this. Communicate with him your worries politely, and just try to get some explanation from him. I don't think neither of you have any sort of major issues, it might just be some sor......
Red flag big humongous red flag. Like maybe a restaurant... idk a teeny concert but a motel?!?!?uh-uh
You don't know who he is anymore, which means that he doesn't know who YOU are EITHER.
Now what does that leave you to be to him? An idea---> a concept---> a body.
you are completely valid in feeling hurt. But you're responsible for your safet......
Well I think u already know that he is expecting to do smth sexual. If you think it's way too soon or it isn't the type of relationship u want, don't go. But if that's what u want from him too, go and have fun. But from the way I see it, that's not what u expected and also not what you're looking for in a relationship. If so you're gonna regret it ......
for some background; this guy & i have known each for years, we both have admit our feelings way back but never have we never became a thing. we would ghost each other then come right back. recently he came back & me being the dumbest person who can’t place boundaries responded after telling everyone i was over him. which in a way i was but i h......