the comments on this seem to be half & half
on their opinions abt the whole who she should’ve ended up with. tBH i was pretty disappointed with the whole her & akki situation, just bc of how??? anticlimactic?? it all was like the whole time i was just so underwhelmed watching him confess. idk akki is just kinda boring to me and usually i would be saying how i have second lead syndrome bUt ugh toba wasn’t exactly the best either,,, he was way too pushy and just kinda.... creepy lmao. idk this had a good start to it but i guess it just slowly fizzled out.
reading these comments just shows how much y’all actually know about how victims of abuse think??? it can take years of therapy and support before most women in abusive relationships actually leave the relationship. like y’all don’t realise how much this shit psychologically damages a person. i’ll admit kazumi can be overwhelming annoying at times. but i would never, at any point, put the blame on her for what’s happened. also to those saying she should be more angry at ena for setting her up to be raped, i just want y’all to realise that she hasn’t even admitted to herself that she was raped. i just really want her to get some professional help. ANYWAYS ALL THE CHARACTERS IN THIS EXCEPT KONORI AND KAZUMI ARE TRASH. heres to hoping that konori and kazumi get in a relationship together and leave those shitty men behind lmao.
I do put the blame on her. He gave her over to be raped. He sold her. And he cheated. And it's not like they were livign together or married and had kids and a bond and she was trapped. No, she CHOSE to stay with him even as he kept using her. So, yeah, I blame her. It wasn't the beating her up, threatening to kill her if she left, threatenign to take the kids---situations where we can see women feel they have no choice either financially or for safety's sake. There was nothing keeping her bound to him other than she WANTED to be his girlfriend. That is a choice.
I got not one zip of sympathy when she blows off all advice and keeps going to a guy who never really behaved in any way like someone loving and who is by all estimates evil and worthless and keeps showing he's worthless and keeps showing she means shit to him besides a fuck and someone to use.
looks like i have to repeat myself again :)) stop victim blaming :)) rather than worrying about how he’s not saying anything :)) focus on how he’s literally being manipulated into thinking he cheated on his boyfriend while also being blackmailed into having sex w/ his professor :)) who until then was someone he saw as an idol and put on a pedestal :)) which shows the power imbalance they already have between them :)) rape :)) and :)) trauma :)) isn’t :)) as :)) simple :)) as :)) you :)) think :))
uGhhhhhhhhh all this scheming and manipulating is starting to just get on my nerves tbh?? like yo,, can they just confess?? talk ??? communication of any kind??? honestly anything is accepted at this point, i’m just so tired of of them conspiring a bunch of shit behind heesu’s back. its not cute. i mean i ship seungwon and heesu as much as the next person but theres so many misunderstandings & unnecessary drama going on that i’m just over it. a simple conversation could easily solve all this. TALK PEOPLE TALK
ah i get that!! it’s obviously a scary thing to confess your feelings or even just talk about them to someone but it just makes me uncomfortable that all 3 of them are kinda discussing and scheming all this behind heesu’s back. you’re right though, they’re young kids with no experience and it’s obvious that seungwon doesn’t know what he’s doing.
i mean seungwons approach to all this in the first place is pretty adorable, he’s going about this in the most awkward but sweetest way. i guess i’m just preparing myself for the inevitable moment where heesu kinda catches on and it all crashes & burns bc i mean.... it’s probably gonna hurt when he finds out his longtime crush/bestfriend has known about his crush on him & was also trying to basically pass him off to some dude. dindiddkd i’ll just try to be more patient with them lmao,, maybe do some breathing exercises when i see more misunderstandings pop up?? try to keep my zen
i took a huge break from this and now i know why i did that,,,, wT f is going on??? wHAT HAPPENED TO THIS LMAO??? IT WENT FROM BOYS FALLIN IN LOVE THROUGH DREAMS TO WHATEVER YOU CAN CALL THIS,.,, this is wack guys. WACK.