did sex for the first time as an adult and wow. i thought i would be disappointed because im a porn addict and thats supposed to mess up your brain and expectations. But it was a lot of fun even if i didn't have an insane orgasm or anything. i would like to do it again and im less nervous about seeking it out now that ive gotten it over with. 5 reply
BL made me trans and I queen out with girls who like BL because I'm not a misogynist who is afraid of cooties.
Sure some girls take it too far but it rly is a case by case basis with a very vocal "bad" minority.
I think when people have this framework of either "evil fetishizer" or "girl who angelically doesn't read yaoi" it makes things a tad bla...... reply
big fan of birth control pills... My ssri+snri meds are also pretty goated but their effects are mostly mental so less exciting effects. im not at high risk of getting preganté but i started taking them for my mood swings and got less acne, no period cramps, and no premenstrual dysphoric disorder. changed my life for the better fr. 1 reply
either you have a falling out that reveals all her flaws so bad you kick yourself for ever having liked her or you come to terms with your feelings enough that you only feel minimal pain when she gets a new boyfriend. Good luck! reply
1- Thinking about undertone from an artist's color-mixing angle, all skintones are made of a combination of a warm color/saturation (red, orange, and yellow) and brightness (white and black), which desaturates the color and gives it that skintone look.
If you can identify if your skin leans towards a red, yellow, or orange saturation, and how satu...... 2 reply
I can't listen to Joji because it just makes me want to relisten to his music as Filthy Frank . Also baddie rap... I'll go to bat for old Nicki Minaj songs and Megan Thee tracks but I can't deny some other artists I like like Ice Spice and Sexxxy Red are sort of ass most of the time reply
Ok. I have fetishes and am asking this because I’m curious how other people with fetishes experience the world. I have fetishes, and they never stop being interesting to me. Like sure they’re hot but I can’t really explain why. it just is. For me, I have what is normal romantic attraction where I get crushes on boys and think about them and get nervous I guess. I also love shipping and get a similar amorous and flustered feeling when I read BL and other types of romance. I also have normal sexual attraction to like. You know normal human bodies and stuff. Then there’s my fetishes. They feel distinctly different from my normal sexual attraction. they’re just there and are what I get off to because... what can i say they’re just so viscerally sexy to me. However, I’ve seen other people with my fetish(es) say they have difficulty in relationships that don’t involve significant others that appeal to their fetishes (For example, one of my fetishes is weight gain, I’ve heard some people with that fetish say that they’ve had ruined relationships over their partner being skinny. I can’t imagine this happening to me because to me it’s just something that’s weirdly sexy to me) So I wonder if anyone else has a complex relationship with their fetish like this. They're just so interesting to me. Or you can just say anything else about your fetish and your relationship with it they are literally so cool and one of the most bizarre and interesting things about humans in my opinion.