Abow November 7, 2024 1:12 am

Does tattoos hurt? And if your someone with a low pain tolerance, was is bearable for you? I want a big back tattoo.

    Black Shadow November 7, 2024 2:09 am

    Yes tattoos hurt. The pain varies depending on the area. Generally everywhere where the skin is thin and bone is close it’ll hurt like hell. Getting tattooed on the ribs can make it hard to breathe sometimes from the pain and vibrations of the gun. As for back tattoos the spine is awful to sit through. My badass friend almost broke my hand when she got her spine tattooed. I’m not trying to frighten you out of it, but it’s just not something pleasant and you need to test the waters before committing to a big project like your whole back. Talk to an artist and maybe get a small trial tattoo to see if it’ll be too much for you.

    Abow November 7, 2024 2:32 am
    Yes tattoos hurt. The pain varies depending on the area. Generally everywhere where the skin is thin and bone is close it’ll hurt like hell. Getting tattooed on the ribs can make it hard to breathe sometimes ... Black Shadow

    Ok, thanks for your input.(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Abow October 31, 2024 12:33 am

Gimme some good manga recommendations. Preferably, action-like manga.

Abow October 27, 2024 7:22 pm

Bro wtf is that bl with Ash and Karlye. It’s AlphaxAlpha

Abow October 18, 2024 2:53 am

Anybody else finds it funny when they censor curse words in smut or when the mc says shit along the lines of “this was the worst decision I ever made” in the beginning of the story in reference to the ML despite them living “happily ever after” in the end?

    h1mb0luvr October 18, 2024 6:14 am

    Unrelated but i miss the faces they used to put on light sabers. Like this face^∇^

    Abow October 18, 2024 9:09 pm
    Unrelated but i miss the faces they used to put on light sabers. Like this face^∇^ h1mb0luvr

    They were funny asf, gave me sum to look forward to since I don’t like dicks, Lol.

    h1mb0luvr October 18, 2024 9:16 pm
    They were funny asf, gave me sum to look forward to since I don’t like dicks, Lol. Abow

    Everything is uncensored now and it sucks

Abow October 13, 2024 4:02 pm

Anybody here play/played Ark Survival Ascended?

Abow October 13, 2024 4:26 am

Does anyone else hate how in BL Mc’s and ML’s are always introverted, don’t talk, hang out with anybody, and always hate conversing w/people? They may have a couple of friends, but they don’t party, do fun enjoyable stuff together, or just do dumb shit. If they do hang out, it’s more of a nuisance for them or it’s a plot point. They’re never ride or die for their friends, have friends they love communicating with, and they don’t have much of a life outside of the MC/ML. Like, I read fiction for a different perspective on others lives, not a reflection of my own. (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸

    PrettyMenSupremacy October 13, 2024 4:31 am

    You are so very right, which is why I shall suggest to you a BL in which the side characters are actually likeable, has their own background and personality and is actually useful to the plot and interacts well with the main leads "rainbow city"

    jaes snakes October 13, 2024 4:42 am
    You are so very right, which is why I shall suggest to you a BL in which the side characters are actually likeable, has their own background and personality and is actually useful to the plot and interacts well... PrettyMenSupremacy

    pfft i knew you would be here

    Abow October 13, 2024 4:42 am
    You are so very right, which is why I shall suggest to you a BL in which the side characters are actually likeable, has their own background and personality and is actually useful to the plot and interacts well... PrettyMenSupremacy

    Ah, sorry, my gripe was about how MC’s and ML’s don’t have much of a life outside of each other, not side characters.( ̄∇ ̄")
    .

    PrettyMenSupremacy October 13, 2024 4:44 am
    Ah, sorry, my gripe was about how MC’s and ML’s don’t have much of a life outside of each other, not side characters.( ̄∇ ̄") . Abow

    Yea but I mean you mentioned how they don't really interact with other people and don't really care about the other characters. ╥﹏╥ so by "their friends" or "others" i just thought you meant like you want the leads to interact more with other people/ "side characters"

    PrettyMenSupremacy October 13, 2024 4:44 am
    pfft i knew you would be here jaes snakes

    teehee

    Abow October 13, 2024 4:53 am
    Yea but I mean you mentioned how they don't really interact with other people and don't really care about the other characters. ╥﹏╥ so by "their friends" or "others" i just thought you meant like you wan... PrettyMenSupremacy

    Oh, ok, I just misunderstood what you meant. I thought you were solely focusing on my side character point and thought I was more interested in seeing side character development than MC/ML. I’ll check out your recommendation.(● ̄(エ) ̄●)

    kimchi October 13, 2024 5:08 am

    omg u should read green apple paradise

Abow October 11, 2024 1:32 am

What would you do if when you okay so he said yes would go?

    PrettyMenSupremacy October 11, 2024 1:40 am

    I had a stroke tryna read this, im sorry

    Fujin October 11, 2024 1:41 am

    uhm.. uhm… I would tell him god bless him

    Gummy_bear October 11, 2024 1:50 am

    Are you ok? Do you like girls?

    Abow October 11, 2024 2:43 am
    I had a stroke tryna read this, im sorry PrettyMenSupremacy

    What would you do if when you okay so he said yes would go? Is better that?

    PrettyMenSupremacy October 11, 2024 2:45 am
    What would you do if when you okay so he said yes would go? Is better that? Abow

    yes, much better. I think you should no he where say went if to go.

    Abow October 11, 2024 2:47 am
    uhm.. uhm… I would tell him god bless him Fujin

    yes.

    Abow October 11, 2024 2:49 am
    Are you ok? Do you like girls? Gummy_bear

    I don’t need your diagnosis, doc. ヽ(`Д´)ノ

    Abow October 11, 2024 2:50 am
    yes, much better. I think you should no he where say went if to go. PrettyMenSupremacy

    Yes, god bless him.

    Cigi October 11, 2024 3:22 am
    I had a stroke tryna read this, im sorry PrettyMenSupremacy

    nastyona October 11, 2024 4:04 am

    i dont know what u mean there, babes

Abow October 4, 2024 9:59 pm

Any artists here who just read smut for the admiration factor n not for sexual relief? Like, you find the human body to be fascinating pieces of work and it’s interesting to see ppl put it in motion? I wonder if ppl feel the same as me. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Gummy_bear October 4, 2024 10:06 pm

    No, I read smut for smut, but sometimes I use the bodys for references when drawing buff guys.

    Phanty October 4, 2024 11:25 pm

    Sometimes yeah! When the art is really really good and the smut is more soft/sensual it's real nice to just appreciate the way everything is drawn^^

Abow October 2, 2024 6:45 am

Can Authors and ppl stop calling mf’s who enjoy getting dicked down by a man, or vice versa, straight? Like dude, you’re catching feelings for another man and yall end up in a relationship. THEY ARE NOT STRAIGHT!!! THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING BISEXUAL!!! OMFG

    bloodless03 October 2, 2024 6:51 am

    right like its straight or gay no middle
    (/TДT)/ its like they forget about bi

    ❤Valentine Vampire❤ October 2, 2024 6:52 am

    ( ̄∇ ̄")

    Abow October 2, 2024 6:57 am
    right like its straight or gay no middle (/TДT)/ its like they forget about bi bloodless03

    Deadass, they like to cater to the “changing the straight man” fetish so they erase bisexuality and treat it like a “this or that” scenario.

    Lazy_Potato ꕤ ‧₊˚ ⋅ October 2, 2024 6:57 am

    Fr! Biphobia isn't really talked about but it's surely prevalent. It's so rare to find authors where they make their characters sure of their bisexual identity

    Lovelover October 2, 2024 7:03 am

    Well does it really count tho? Since they're usually attracted to just the one guy and not interested in anyone else?

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:04 am
    Fr! Biphobia isn't really talked about but it's surely prevalent. It's so rare to find authors where they make their characters sure of their bisexual identity Lazy_Potato ꕤ ‧₊˚ ⋅

    Fr, the most common tropes they do is “I’m gay for you” or “my bi-awakening was you (grown ass adults btw)”. They love the Virgin Mary trope and giving the ML their first time for every damn thing. So annoying.#-.-)

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:17 am
    Well does it really count tho? Since they're usually attracted to just the one guy and not interested in anyone else? Lovelover

    It does, I doubt sexuality works like that. You can’t be someone who’s exclusively dated/been attracted to women in the past without needing a strong emotional connection to be partners and all of a sudden have that unintentional boundary exist only for men, so much so you’re “only attracted to one guy”. Like cmon, they never show interest in men at all, not physically, romantically, or sexually. It’s just Virgin Mary bs n’ they’re still interested in men at the end of the day if they’re dating one, no more deniability.

    Lovelover October 2, 2024 7:32 am
    It does, I doubt sexuality works like that. You can’t be someone who’s exclusively dated/been attracted to women in the past without needing a strong emotional connection to be partners and all of a sudden ... Abow

    Hm, well I think it's like this. If you're straight you're attracted to female biology, and even if you think men are attractive you're not necessarily attracted to them, like acknowledging someone's beauty but not desiring it. Whereas if you suddenly feel an attraction to one particular man not simply because of appearance but other factors as well, you are attracted to them and actually spawn a desire. And while it might open the possibility of you being bi, if you still don't feel attracted to other men and just the one, I don't see how that would count. Since being bi is being attracted to both genders no? So I guess straight in theory but not in practice maybe?

    Lovelover October 2, 2024 7:34 am
    Hm, well I think it's like this. If you're straight you're attracted to female biology, and even if you think men are attractive you're not necessarily attracted to them, like acknowledging someone's beauty but... Lovelover

    Like hypothetically if a gay guy suddenly fell in love with a woman would he be bi, even though he's not attracted to other women and just the one?

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:47 am
    Hm, well I think it's like this. If you're straight you're attracted to female biology, and even if you think men are attractive you're not necessarily attracted to them, like acknowledging someone's beauty but... Lovelover

    But that’s literally just an excuse to not call yourself bisexual and reinforces the harmful idea that you can turn out lesbians, gays, and straight ppl. N’ that they just have to find the “one”. You would obviously just have a preference for certain men that not a lot of men fall into, therefore, you’re still attracted to men. A lesbian who goes out their way to date a man isn’t a lesbian. ( ̄へ ̄)

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:52 am
    Like hypothetically if a gay guy suddenly fell in love with a woman would he be bi, even though he's not attracted to other women and just the one? Lovelover

    He would be bi. The point of being gay is being attracted to men and sometimes NB ppl. Women aren’t in the gay dating pool, it literally defeats the purpose of the sexuality and struggles that come along with it..

    jackskiss October 2, 2024 7:54 am
    Like hypothetically if a gay guy suddenly fell in love with a woman would he be bi, even though he's not attracted to other women and just the one? Lovelover

    Sexuality is fluid for a lot of people and if someone who initially thought they identified as “gay” but then found someone outside of that boundary attractive, they will acknowledge that they might not be gay and perhaps bisexual or demisexual etc. Thats the fluid nature of sexuality that exists outside of het space

    Meow October 2, 2024 3:48 pm

    It’s not biphobia, it’s not our place to label someone or enforce that someone use a label we deem appropriate. I myself can be label as bi or pan based on my attraction (I’ve gone by both in the past) yet I rather not have that label. I’ve even taken multiple courses on these topics in college, it’s a bit ignorant to make these assumptions and be so exacting. Liking it up the ass doesn’t equal gay and just being able to sleep with only 1 guy doesn’t always mean u like men. It can be that it’s just this person. It is up to the person themselves to figure out their own feelings and label themselves as whatever they want. However, u do have a point that in many bl’s where they seem to be scared of labels except straight or gay.

    Meow October 2, 2024 3:51 pm
    But that’s literally just an excuse to not call yourself bisexual and reinforces the harmful idea that you can turn out lesbians, gays, and straight ppl. N’ that they just have to find the “one”. You w... Abow

    That is not for you to decide my dear. Many lesbians have had sex with men, and many gay men have had sex with women. Some people don’t realize up they’re in their 40s & 50s and well married with children. Educate yourself better before you go about accusing others

    Meow October 2, 2024 3:55 pm

    As another person replied, sexuality is fluid. I’ve gone through different labels in the past 10 years and all seemed appropriate at the time. Be more mindful and open to others, and accepting as well as that is what our community is supposed to do.

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:24 pm
    It’s not biphobia, it’s not our place to label someone or enforce that someone use a label we deem appropriate. I myself can be label as bi or pan based on my attraction (I’ve gone by both in the past) ye... Meow

    Bl is prominently made by women, for women, they tend to fetishize turning out straight men and still make them identify as straight, that’s apart of the fetish. You’re also forgetting these are 2-dimensional characters whose thought process doesn’t expand beyond what’s being displayed, it’s the authors job to properly represent sexuality and not fetishize/misrepresent it. You like engaging with men sexually, romantically and you find them physically attractive? YOU'RE NOT STRAIGHT, it doesn’t matter if it’s one dude. N’ I never said anal is gay, don’t misconstrue my words, I said “if you enjoy getting dicked down by men or vice versa you’re not straight”. Pleasure seeking and bi-curiosity aren’t related to what I’m talking about.#-.-)

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:36 pm
    That is not for you to decide my dear. Many lesbians have had sex with men, and many gay men have had sex with women. Some people don’t realize up they’re in their 40s & 50s and well married with childr... Meow

    N’ that’s bc they weren’t sure of their sexuality or were in denial of it. Lesbians and gays still have that underlying feeling of something “being off” whilst being in active relationships, that’s why they may hide their sexuality or leave their relationship. Those who don’t realize who they are until later in life are ppl who’ve never been exposed to queer media, in denial about their sexuality, or unknowingly force themselves to assimilate amongst other heterosexuals. BL has the common tendency to go along the “Virgin Mary” trope and LOVE giving the male lead the MC’s first in everything. They like treating sexuality like a reward rather than something existing outside of the ML bc 9/10, it’s written by a straight woman. I’m already well educated, it seems you need to do better research.

    Abow October 2, 2024 7:44 pm
    As another person replied, sexuality is fluid. I’ve gone through different labels in the past 10 years and all seemed appropriate at the time. Be more mindful and open to others, and accepting as well as that... Meow

    Sexuality isn’t fluid for everyone. There are straight men who’ve never engaged in sexual relations with men bc they don’t feel comfortable doing so, there’s lesbians who don’t like engaging with men PERIOD, and there’s gay men who’ve only ever had eyes for other men. Just bc it’s fluid for you doesn’t mean it’s like that for everyone else. I’m someone who’s sexuality has changed over the years and I’m finally starting to understand myself, but I’m not gonna sit here and say “you can turn out straights, lesbians, and gays if you tried bc sexuality is fluid”, bc it’s not true and u just can’t. It’s a harmful rhetoric.

    Meow October 2, 2024 8:16 pm
    Sexuality isn’t fluid for everyone. There are straight men who’ve never engaged in sexual relations with men bc they don’t feel comfortable doing so, there’s lesbians who don’t like engaging with men ... Abow

    I don’t feel like arguing with someone who’s dead set on seeing things their way only. Get out and see the world, learn from experts and know your shit better

    Lovelover October 2, 2024 10:36 pm

    About the virgin aspect, I don't see why that's really a problem. If someone has been straight all their life, and perhaps even later on realize they're bi, they're obviously not going to have had experience with those types of things. And honestly it is endearing when your partner gives you their first everything because you feel as if you've shared something special together. That applies to both parties in the relationship, and since these are predominantly set in Asian cultures that value being conservative it's not really a surprise that they're virgins. ╮(^▽^)╭

Abow September 20, 2024 2:50 am

Somebody recommend me a semi-dark action manga, like if JJK was a seinen. I wanna see a morally ambiguous or non stereotypical MC, thanks!

    Shoto's waifu September 20, 2024 3:05 am

    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/tougen_anki/
    uhm does this counts ? it's about a students who attends a school specialized for them (an oni) to get stronger and fight their nemesis (momo whose existence is to get rid of all the onis)

    Abow September 20, 2024 12:05 pm
    https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tougen_anki/uhm does this counts ? it's about a students who attends a school specialized for them (an oni) to get stronger and fight their nemesis (momo whose existence is to ... Shoto's waifu

    Thanks, I’ll check it out.

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