First of all, I want to say that I'm sorry you're feeling frustrated and that you've had to deal with this kind of behavior. There are a lot of fujoshis online that take their interest in yaoi too far and blur the line between fictional yaoi and actual gay relationships in real life. That isn't okay, and I understand why you're feeling defensive an......
For me, I personally tend to separate Yaoi and gay but I understand what you meant. Some parts of the community can get really toxic. The Uke Seme dynamic is something that I believed in the past when I was younger, now I'm pretty open to any type of manga but never shouta manga. They act really feminine and girlish they might as well be a female,......
5 Question for fujoshis from a gay guy